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I have been standing for my marriage since my divorce in 2001.I was first aware of husband's infidelity in 1999. I have been praying for restoration since the divorce. My ex has had one OW, and has been with her all this time. I have watched myself grow older , waiting for him. I would like to continue standing, if I had a sign he was coming back. I talk to him almost every night online,( he has moved several states away.)But he shows no interest other than being friends. I am tired of being alone.
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Alone1,
I understand your loneliness and how very tired you are. I dont think any of us BS's here cant help but feel the same way. You have been standing a lot longer than I have and I am already so weary. I pray that you will find something good in your life that you can fill the emptiness with.
Know that you are not alone.
God Bless
Katie
God grades on the cross, not the curve.
WH-42/BS-41(Me)
Married 23yrs
S21, S19, D13
PA-7/04-now
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Katie,
I have been standing a long time. I feel selfish, why shuld I stand, and be lonely, so that he can make it into heaven? He may never repent of this, or maybe in his last moments. I feel like a nun. I have not been held in 6 years. I was married 20 years at the time of my divorce.
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Alone1,
I have some material that I'd like to share w/you but I have to find it first. It talks about standing for your M after a D. I'll be back.
RBW (me) FWH lostboyz
Married for 16 years
DDay on 10/10/03
Reconciliation on 2/8/04
Son 17, Twin son & daughter 16
4 years of a strong recovery
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