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When a girl says to you: "gosh, we're not gonna see each other at all this week, I miss you!"
Things you should NOT say:
"you'll live"
"its no big deal"
"its only a week"
Acceptable Responses:
"I can't wait to see you"
"I'll miss you too"
Anyone else want to play?
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From the Big Book of Things That I Can't Believe I Actually Said:
From my first, post-D "GF"...
Her: "Your life wouldn't change a bit if you never saw me again."
Me: "That's probably accurate."
Yikes.
Acceptable responses:
Anything but what I said. It's not exactly what I meant...
It's funny now...
Then: Not so much.
Last edited by thefurnitureman; 03/20/06 10:43 PM.
Me:29
Divorced, 3/05
"...cause waiting on love ain't so easy to do..." - Jack Johnson, "Sitting, Waiting, Wishing", 2005
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LOl...good one FM!
sometimes accurate or logical is NOT what us girls wanna hear!
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As someone reminded me after I broke up with BF,
"Sometimes it is addition by subtraction"
Really, there wasn't much to miss, and I gained free time.
It was a marriage that never really started.
H: Conflict Avoider, NPD No communication skills (Confirmed by MC) Me: Enabler
Sep'd 12/01, D'd 08/03.
My joys and the light of my life: DD 11, DD 9
*Approach life and situations from the point of love - not from fear.*
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Lexxxy: Good topic. This should be a fun thread to track. Have a few good, related stories, but none that I recall are PG-13 or calmer! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> FR
You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you stop to look fear in the face. Challenges can be stepping stones or stumbling blocks. It’s just a matter of how you look at them. The purpose of life is to live it, to reach out eagerly and without fear for newer and richer experience
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I actually went out with a guy who told me that every night, his nine year old son falls asleep listening to Eminem. When I questioned him, he said...oh well he just likes the beat, he doesnt understand the words!!!!!!!!!
WHAT??????????????? that was our last date
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When a girl says to you: "gosh, we're not gonna see each other at all this week, I miss you!" Things you should NOT say: Don't sweat it.. I wuz gonna get some fishin in anyways. Remember, there will be plenty of dishes for you to wash when you get back. We will miss you also. (Don't say who we is!) Acceptable Responses: How can you miss me? You are taking my heart with you. Not half as much as I will miss you.
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"gosh, we're not gonna see each other at all this week, I miss you!"
Don't say...
"Huh?"
"Good, you ought to. I'm the best thing you got!"
"You still here?"
I love my Lord Sooo Much!!
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Hey Keith, I know this is off topic, but are you still seeing the lady you met through eharmony? I have been dying to ask! mlhb
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i know i'm new but i had one thursday night and i'm pretty sure i said the wrong thing
she says "well, my boyfriend wants to get back together but i wanted to wait to hear what you thought."
i said "yeah, you should get back together with him. by the way could you have told me this BEFORE i drove 40 miles and spent 40 bucks." i then got up and went to the bathroom and text/called three friends of mine. they told me to leave her there, i didn't. because i am stupid, duh, i'm getting divorced.
I wish I could say something classy and inspirational, but that just wouldn't be (my) style.
Pain heals. Chicks dig scars. Glory... lasts forever.
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too funny gekko! doesn't it make you wonder where some people come from.. I would have left her there! haha mlhb
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mhlb,
Thanks for asking about the lady from eharmony... Actually, we have just become friends. We do call each other and chat, email, and text message each other but I don't think it will go further. I just don't think we have the "chemistry"??? But we both are totally ok with being good friends and it nice to have someone to talk with that can relate to the tramau of divorce.
How about you? How is your love life?
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hey Keith... glad you made a new friend. I am all about making new friends right now. No love life haha But I want to really get to know people, see what is out there and than see what happens. I am pretty focussed on finishing my education right now, plus I work while I go to school so my time is limited.
I am really just liking talking to all kinds of people and enlarging my friendship circle.
Thanks for asking!
mlhb
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