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Greetings. I remember you having some recent trials with your WW (F?) regarding her being in contact again with the OM in Florida. I am sorry if you have alrady given a update on this, I missed it. How did you handle that?. I have this unnerved feeling that while you are out here supporting everyone elses house, your own one is crumbling.
Am I wrong about that?
Goodluck
Lem
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MM,
You are my hero, so I hope things are not that bad for you. I'll keep you in my prayers.
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MM,
You have always shown the utmost kindest to me, regardless of our differing opinions on some subjects, and I hope that all is well in your home.
This thread made my heart stop...
hoping for the best for you and yours.
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Standing in His PresenceFBS (me) (48) FWW (41) Married April 1993... 4 kids (19(B), 17(G), 14(B), 4(B)) Blessed by God more than I deserve "If Jesus is your co-pilot...you need to change seats!"Link: The Roles of Husbands and Wives
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MM,
I am soo sorry to hear of this turn of events. I think you should NOT give up on your W, even if the marriage ends. She is your children's mother, and from what you have said, she will need YOUR prayers as will your children.
God Bless,
JL
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You are a rock. You strengthen my faith. Thank you for being the Mortarman, and keep hitting the Enemy with all you've got!
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Keep strong Mortarman.
As long as your wife has been touch, she will remember again. Our GOD giving conscience is very strong. She is blinded for now.
Just keep on loving her the best you can. Your kindness and compassion will shine thru. Nothing can beat that!!!
BS age 38
Sep 03 DDay
30 June 05 Divorce
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GRACE...TRULY AMAZING GRACE...
Mrs. W
FWW ~ 47 ~ MeFBH ~ 50 ~ MrWonderingDD ~ 17 Dday ~ 2005 ~ Recovered
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Sorry about this revelation here. Get the taxes done, drink a cup of coffee and just breath....
There is justice in this world and I believe you and your kids will see it in being together.
Prayers for all around
LM
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GRACE...TRULY AMAZING GRACE...
Mrs. W Yes, that is the perfect word since it epitomizes how you have handled this entire situation. My prayers are with you and your kids! HTW
Married 10 years, Legally Seperated Aug 2,2006 1 year of Plan A followed by 1 year of Plan B... ...now stepping towards recovery????? BH 37(me), WW 35, DB 7 & DD 5 My Story My struggle with an EA
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Mortorman, I understand comepletely. You helped last year with all of the military stuff, etc. Your words on this thread are exactly where my marriage is at as well. We are legally separated, but you worded it perfectly. God says let the nonbeliever go. My family, my h's family, all of us as well question the salvation of wh. I agree with all you said because I too live it. My main concern is my children as well, and that they are protected from all of this, and from ow. My main concern, keep them away from evil ow.
thank you mortor, God gave you a post that put my sitch into words finally. And thank you for all the help you gave me through this year. mlhb
God first, family second, and all else will fall into place.
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MM, I'm in awe.
Prayers for you, your wife and your children.
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MM,
I am sorry about the latest turn of events. You have been an inspiration to me and I know that God will see you through. Let me know if I can help in any way.
I will keep you in my prayers.
God Bless.
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MM,
Your WW is relatively young and I think she needs to hit rock bottom, which she will, before she gets it. I just hope it’s not too late for you two by then. But I agree that you must move on and let God take care of the rest.
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