Hi all, I just stumbled upon this website and am really glad because I don't have anyone I feel I can truly open up to about all that is going on. My husband and I have been married just over 3 years and have a 15 mth old son. I have to travel for work several times throughout the year and just returned from a business trip to FL last Friday. My husband had been home alone all week because I was fortunate enough to get to take my son along with me for once. We have previously had problems with him chatting with other women when I'm out of town, so I still have a problem with trusting him fully. Today I was working from home and decided to check his email to make sure nothing had gone on while I was away. Sure enough, he had signed up with several websites and was apparently chatting it up while I was out of town. To top that, he had joined a crossdresser's forum and even posted that he was looking for his first experience with a transvestite/transsexual/transgender. I have confronted him about these problems before and some he admitted to, but denied anything related to viewing pornography or initiating convos/relationships with crossdressers. I'm very upset and don't know how to approach this topic with him. Anyone encountered a similar situation or know how I should proceed with this?

I'm not an expert on this subject, but would recommend http://www.xxxchurch.org for more information on support and accountability.

I'm sorry this chaos is going on in your life, is your H remorseful or apologetic about the behavior, or does he defend it as okay?

MSA