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Re: Ask for OMW's Forgiveness
Pepperband #1733216 08/18/06 11:08 AM
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That is exactly what I was thinking. If you are genuine, send her a note with a check in the mail. States something like this:

I'm sorry.
I know this won't make up much, but, I hope it shows you I'm genuine in my apology.
And sign her a check for... oh, $5,000-10,000 . Or whatever monetary level would be appropriate for her to feel you suffered a serious hit.

Interesting.

9 years now ... and some days you still say grrr!
Hang in there.
Re: Ask for OMW's Forgiveness
RookKev #1733217 08/18/06 11:29 AM
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The heck with money she may reply, instead of money she may ask to sleep with your husband just to see if you really want to help make it up to her.

Sing loud for the sunshine, pray hard for the rain.
Re: Ask for OMW's Forgiveness
eldente #1733218 08/18/06 11:32 AM
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Oh my gawd, that's the funniest thing I read today! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


Honeygirl,

I'm sure you're sincere just naive as to the damage that has been done to another, and their family.
Re: Ask for OMW's Forgiveness
weaver #1733219 08/18/06 11:59 AM
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You really need to consider leaving this woman alone. She doesn't need ANY contact from you much less your apology. Her life needs to have a 100% complete and PERMANENT disconnect from you. Period. Anything you send will not only be painful for her but will be seen as an attempt to assuage your guilt and frankly - it isn't about you at that level.

Move on with fixing you. She doesn't probably care if you're sorry or not. She would probably appreciate NOT receiving anything that reminds her of you. Focus your apologies and energy on your M.

Be well.

Me (BS) 36 FWW 35 Married 5/25/91 DS-7 DD - Born 11/8/05 !!! PA #1 12/1996 PA #2 4/01 to 1/04 NC 1/04 There are people in the world so hungry, that God cannot appear to them except in the form of bread. - Mahatma Gandhi Don't think exposure is a good idea? Go here... From Harley Himself
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