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My husband has just moved out. Gone. Okayed himself with our children & left, will be back in a few days to get more of his stuff.
Tears, toys & bewiderment abundent.
4 days ago we were best friends planning our wonderful futures, giving our children solid basis.
Friday I felt comfortable enough to tell him I would never endure another affair or neglect again. He was deeply offended by that & got angry.
He simmered all day Saturday.
Sunday he exploded & packed his bags.
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Brief outline, we are 22years together.
Husband has had several affairs.
Last one ended 2003.
No counselling stoically refuses.
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What am I to do?
Help please
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Starting a New Way of Life July 06
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He took the children? What have you read from here? We can help but we need more info.
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why do you want to continue in a marriage with a person that will not meet the basic concept of marriage ie fidelity and uses people...
do not misunderstand me and I am not saying this is a good thing.....and that you should divorce..
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I am saying you have to throw a stone to get the pool to ripple...
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that perhaps out of this seperation can finally be built the type of marriage you both deserve...
I would chose to be alone over and over again than to live with a liar...
what say you..
ARK
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