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I just found out exactly how much college and credit card dept my wife has. She didn’t tell me about it I saw the paperwork by accident. It’s triple what she told me before we got married.

I have been loosing sleep, when I don’t feel nauseous I feel numb.

I really need some advice.

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How long have you guys been married ?
Any children ?

Dave Ramsey seems to have good advice about debt.

Losing sleep and getting upset won't do anything.

Does she work ? What kind of expenses do you guys have ?

Why was she afraid of letting you know the real amount ?

It may be time for you to control finances - see if she will
agree to this - or find out what her plan is.

If finance is your only issue go to church and thank God.


Trust in the Lord

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