Remember how I said my ex was getting married?
Well, the gossip grapevine connected this past week. I thought he was getting married in late September, but as it turns out, he got married in the summer (July). They apparently had a quiet wedding in Oregon, with just the two of them and each of their moms present.
What I find bizarre about this is the fact that Oregon was one of OUR favorite holiday destinations, one we went to at least 4 or 5 times during our relationship. I just don't understand how this woman is comfortable with:
a) living in the house he and I built together;
b) traveling in the campervan that my ex and I traveled in for nearly 10 years together before;
c) getting married in a place that was special to he and his first wife.
It also strikes me that it's almost like he was embarrassed that he was marrying her, so he went and did it far from home, without any of his brothers around (who he is VERY close to), without his grandmothers there, without his friends (well, the few he still stays in touch with).
I know, I shouldn't give two hoots about what he does, or who he does it with , at this point, 2.5 years after divorce. But, sadly, it still is a passing interest! (Kind of like reading about the stars marital woes in US or People magazine.)
On a positive note, I have a date next week with a nice guy I met online <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> I decided to go back to online dating, after no dates in many, many months. I may have quite a few friends, but still can't seem to meet anyone single and somewhat near my age.
Jen:)
