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Hi, everybody!

Boy, what a difference a good night's sleep can bring.

MEDC, you old, (young?) rascal.

You called me out on something. Which, grudgingly, Was the right thing to do.

I will call your method indiscriminate. But they had the intended effect of most 2x4's.

Just didn't realize how hard my head was. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" />


And yes, I felt some love today... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

I read though some of the stuff posted, and even went back and read where it all started, (Thank you Ace) And I was making it all about me. Is that WW thinking or what?

So, the underlying theme of the thread was important. And I took my eye off of that. Sorry.

Lousy Golfer.

Who still cannot consistently break 100. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" />

And no, Mr Wondering. My plan to go to the hot tub with wine and my DW was interruppted by BOTH of us falling asleep on the couch watching the Super Dull. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />

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No need to fret.

I consistently (about 2 to 3 times per year) shoot around 90.

At least the Bears didn't win.

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FBH(me)-51 FWW-49 (MrsWondering)
DD19 DS 22 Dday-2005-Recovered

"agree to disagree" = Used when one wants to reject the objective reality of the situation and hopefully replace it with their own.
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YIPPEE!!!

<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
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Is that WW thinking or what?

*GULP*, well, yes it is, but I presumed that you were once a WAYWARD HUSBAND (WH) and not a WAYWARD WIFE (WW)...Was I wrong??? Considering your golf scores, I just may have been!!! (apologies to all the great female golfers out there) <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

So does this mean you guys are exposing to OWH???

Mrs. W


FWW ~ 47 ~ Me
FBH ~ 50 ~ MrWondering
DD ~ 17
Dday ~ 2005 ~ Recovered

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Mrs W:

I was thinking more along the lines of WayWard. But I see the difference!

And in regards to your question, we will be talking about it.

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LG...
I have a feeling we are alike. I am pretty hard headed myself and I can clearly see from the posts that you have given to Lilsis that you are a good man. That is very clear. We all have moments in our life where we neeed to be shaken from what we are doing or thinking. If I provided any of that for you... I am thankful....

And yes, I know my methods can be less than tactful at times... but it is only a means to an end when I feel it necessary.

I really do value your views here and KNOW that you give great advice. As a BS I can tell you that I OBVIOUSLY have some sensitivities to BS issues. But I will never look down on you for being a FWS. NEVER. I will call you on the carpet when the need exists in my eyes and if it helps... I am happy... if not, all I have done is state an opinion.

So, thank you for seeing what the big picture was for me. I appreciate you being big enough to do this. If you need any help in how to expose to the OM should you choose to do so... please ask.

Be well,

MEDC

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Mrs W:

I was thinking more along the lines of WayWard. But I see the difference!

LOL...I never thought about it that way...DUH on ME..."Not all dumbs are blonde!" (this one is though!) <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

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And in regards to your question, we will be talking about it.

Good Man...Glad to hear it's on the table...Let us know if there's anything we can offer in the way of support/help! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Mrs. W


FWW ~ 47 ~ Me
FBH ~ 50 ~ MrWondering
DD ~ 17
Dday ~ 2005 ~ Recovered

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Wow you guys are pretty awesome....

Men...who...think??? Who share feelings??? Who can even possibly admit when they may have been wrong???

Thanks for helping me toughen up a bit, Big K and I apologize if I got emo on ya, medc...forgive me, i'm an emotional woman...unbelievable, I know...we are normally never like that...

pretty great place y'all got around here


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Hey... no issue between us. If you think you are emotional... you should have seen me when I only was 82 posts in! I was a basket case!

Thanks for the message.

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Hey... no issue between us. If you think you are emotional... you should have seen me when I only was 82 posts in! I was a basket case!

Thanks for the message.

LOL! basketcase, now that would be a good handle...


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Thanks for helping me toughen up a bit, Big K and I apologize if I got emo on ya, medc...forgive me, i'm an emotional woman...unbelievable, I know...we are normally never like that...

Hey we're cool !!


Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
D-Day August 2005
Married 11/1982 3 Sons 27,25,23
Empty Nesters.
Fully Recovered.
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yeah... that would make a great name for me... I am surprised I have never seen it used here! LOL.


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