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Looks like I will be the temp MB DJ. (Disc Jockey)

Here are some Plan A/ Plan B songs coping style songs! Feeling the grief and feeling good feelings about ourselves. Healing can come in many ways.

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Toni Braxtin (Live)

Unbreak my heart




Brooks and Dunn (Live)

Building Bridges




Brooks and Dunn (Live)

Your Gonna Miss Me When I Am Gone.



Shania Twain (Live)

Who’s boots have your been under.




Shania Twain (Live)

Don’t’




Shania Twain

Don’t be Stupid (You Know I Love You )




Palmer, Addicted to Love, Phantom of the Opera.




Shania (Don’t Impress Me Much.) Come back.





Shania Twain ( Man, I feel like a woman) Reclaim Yourself…




Shania Twain ( Any man of mine….)




DHT Listen to Your Heart.




Fleetwood Mac (You Can Go Your Own Way) Dance Tour 97




Celine Dion

My Heart Will Go On




Mc Sar & The Real Mc Coy
Runaway






Walking on Sunshine Version AJ





Artist: Katrina And The Waves Lyrics

Song: Walking On Sunshine Lyrics

Oh! Ohhhh yeeeh
I used to think maybe you loved me now baby I'm sure
And I just cant wait till the day when you knock on my door
Now everytime I go for the mailbox , gotta hold myself down
Cos I just wait till you write me your coming around

I'm walking on sunshine , wooah
I'm walking on sunshine, woooah
I'm walking on sunshine, woooah
and don't it feel good!!

Hey , alright now
and dont it feel good!!
hey yeh

I used to think maybe you loved me, now I know that its true
and I don't want to spend all my life , just in waiting for you
now I don't want u back for the weekend
not back for a day , no no no
I said baby I just want you back and I want you to stay

woah yeh!
I'm walking on sunshine , wooah
I'm walking on sunshine, woooah
I'm walking on sunshine, woooah
and don't it feel good!!

Hey , alright now
and don't it feel good!!
hey yeh ,oh yeh
and don't it feel good!!

walking on sunshine
walking on sunshine

I feel the love,I feel the love, I feel the love that's really real
I feel the love, I feel the love, I feel the love that's really real

I'm on sunshine baby oh
I'm on sunshine baby oh

I'm walking on sunshine wooah
I'm walking on sunshine wooah
I'm walking on sunshine wooah

and don't it feel good!!
I'll say it again now
and don't it feel good!!

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Nickel Back

How You Remind me.


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Whitney Houston. (Freedom Fest )


Where Do Broken Hearts Go.




I Will Always Love You.


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James Blunt.

Good Bye My Lover.




Your Beautiful.


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Queensrÿche - Another Rainy Night

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Mariah Carey- Shake it off


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Grief song:

Don't Speak by No Doubt

You and me
We used to be together
Everyday together always
I really feel
That I'm losing my best friend
I can't believe
This could be the end
It looks as though you're letting go
And if it's real
Well I don't want to know

Don't speak
I know just what you're saying
So please stop explaining
Don't tell me cause it hurts
Don't speak
I know what you're thinking
I don't need your reasons
Don't tell me cause it hurts

Video for Don't Speak

Coping Song:

Little Bit of Soul by The Music Explosion

Now when your girl is gone and you're broke in two
You need a little bit o' soul to see it through...

...And when you're in a mess and you feel like cryin'
Just remember this little song of mine

And as you go through life tryin' to reach your goal
Just remember what I said about a little bit o' soul

Random video featuring the song

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Michelle Branch -- Are You Happy Now?

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Couple of oldies by Journey:

I'll Be Alright Without You
Who's Crying Now
Send Her My Love
Separate Ways (Worlds Apart)

I used to listen to Journey all the time - I love Steve Perry's voice.

These songs are too painful now, though.


Divorced on 3/25/2008 but I have primary legal and physical custody of my 2 kids.

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"Light Before We Land" - The Delgados

*In cases such as these I'd like a hand
Don't wake me up without a master plan

With sight and sound becoming fragile
Don’t you understand
When things that once were beautiful
Are bland

And when I feel like I can feel once again
Let me stay awhile
Soak it in awhile
If we can hold on we can fix what is wrong
Buy a little time
For this head of mine
Haven for us

In truth there is no better place to be
Than falling out of darkness still to see

Without a premonition
Could you tell me where we stand?
I'd hate to lose this light
Before we land

And when I feel like I can feel once again
Let me stay awhile
Soak it in awhile
If we can hold on we can fix what is wrong
Buy a little time
For this head of mine
Haven for us

Before we let euphoria
Convince us we are free
Remind us how we used to feel
Before when life was real


And when I feel like I can feel once again
Let me stay awhile
Soak it in awhile
If we can hold on we can fix what is wrong
Buy a little time
For this head of mine
Haven for us*


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WS - 25
D-Day - 01/08/07(EA), 02/02/07 (PA)
Divorce Final - 09/14/07

"It's only the fairy tale they believe"
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Great sharing...Located most of the music video requests.

Eph wasn’t sure if you wanted Journey looked up?

Tears are cleansing for the soul. Tissues...OKAY!!!

Adding a few more…Click on...


Queensryche

Another Rainy Night (Live)




Moriah Carey

Shake It Off (Live)




No Doubt

Don’t Speak (Live)




Michelle Branch

Are You Happy Now (Live)




The Music Explosion

Little Bit O Soul (Live)




The Delgados

Light Before We Land (Live)




Sting

Fragile (Live)




Sting

Every breath You Take (Live)




Sade

Somebody Already Broke My Heart (Live)



Sade

Why Can’t We Live Together ( Live )




Sade

Smooth Operator (Live)




Sade

No Ordinary Love (Live)




Stacie Orrico

I’m Not Missing You (Live)




U2

In The Name Of Love (Live)





Andre Rieu

Love Theme to Romeo& Juliet (Live)


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Correction: Sting Song--> Fragile




The other thread under sting is actually
Gilbert O Sullivan Song -Alone Again Naturally.

I am listening to Bob Marley...No woman no cry...

I am sad--missing my dog...more losses.

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Bob Marley

No Woman No Cry (Live)


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yeah, look 'em up and let's see.


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Better Now ~ by Collective Soul

It's an upbeat, feel-good-about-yourself song


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It's Not Over - Daughtry



This one I think about my life...Great song!


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Here's a great one for FWS like me. It's by Hoobastank, it's called "The Reason". It's awesome.

The Reason
I'm not a perfect person
as many things I wish I didn't do
but I continue learning
I never meant to do those things to you
and so I have to say before I go
that I just want you to know

I've found a reason for me
to change who I used to be
a reason to start over new
and the reason is you

I'm sorry that I hurt you
it's something I must live with everyday
and all the pain I put you through
I wish that I could take it all away
and be the one who catches all your tears
that's why I need you to hear

I've found a resaon for me
to change who I used to be
a reason to start over new
and the reason is you
and the reason is you
and the reason is you
and the reason is you

I'm not a perfect person
I never meant to do those things to you
and so I have to say before I go
that I just want you to know

I've found a reason for me
to change who I used to be
a reason to start over new
and the reason is you

I've found a reason to show
a side of me you didn't know
a reason for all that I do
and the reason is you


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It's by Hoobastank, it's called "The Reason".



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That's what I said. Thanks for the link. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />


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I love the song but it kind of sucks now because when I first heard it, it pretty much said everything that I was feeling about what I had done in the past and how sorry I was. So I went out and bought the cd. I played it in the car for my BS at the time, but I got no reaction from it.
Maybe it was because she was already into her affair and was thinking about her sexual rendezvous with OM3 the next day. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />


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