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But so might have a small handful of heroes without guns.


But they didn't do that either. They just STOOD there, darn it all. Why did they do that? Why would anyone do that?

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Here is a concealed carry example...actually two...one where the good guys didnt have gund and one where they did!

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On March 13, 1997, a Jordanian soldier shot seven young Israeli girls to death while they were visiting Jordan’s “Island of Peace.” According to newspaper reports, the Israelis had “complied with Jordanian requests to leave their weapons behind when they entered the border
enclave. Otherwise, they might have been able to stop the shooting.”

Referring to the 1984 massacre at a McDonald’s restaurant in California, Israeli criminologist Abraham Tennenbaum wrote that: what occurred at a [crowded venue in] Jerusalem some weeks before the California McDonald's massacre: three
terrorists who attempted to machine-gun the throng managed to kill only one victim before being shot down by handgun carrying Israelis. Presented to the press the next day, the surviving terrorist complained that his group had
not realized that Israeli civilians were armed. The terrorists had planned to machine-gun a succession of crowded spots, thinking that they would be able to escape before the police or army could arrive to deal with them."


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No, it's not a fantasy. Since "right to carry" laws were enacted in Florida, for instance, the murder rate has decreased 52%. That's not a stat that can be used dishonestly...except by ignoring it. Yeah, that's most definitely dishonest.

Also, recall the incident a few years ago when a single armed (off-duty) policeman in a middle school disarmed a kid with a gun who was going to kill everyone he could? Are the children he saved a "fantasy?"

No, but any mental mas2rbation about an armed s2dent putting a stop 2 this massacre before it started is, because it didn't happen.

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The argument here is that it SHOULD have!


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But so might have a small handful of heroes without guns.


But they didn't do that either. They just STOOD there, darn it all. Why did they do that? Why would anyone do that?

Well, I may have not seen the reports of s2dents lining up 2 be shot until they were posted here, but you must have overlooked the reports of people shielding others and barricading doors. Heroic, even though they failed. My hat is off 2 them.

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During a shooting spree at a public school in Pearl, Mississippi, an assistant principal retrieved his gun and physically immobilized the shooter before he caused further harm (CNN, October 2, 1997, 2:40 PM EST). And in the public school related shooting in Edinboro, Pennsylvania, which left one teacher dead, a shot gun pointed at the offender while he was reloading prevented additional harm (Reuters Newswire, April 26, 1998).


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2L, I'm speculating a different course of action may have saved some or even most of those poor kids. I don't know why you ridicule other people's ideas so crassly. Can you not advance a theory without using that tactic?

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But so might have a small handful of heroes without guns.


But they didn't do that either. They just STOOD there, darn it all. Why did they do that? Why would anyone do that?

Well, I may have not seen the reports of s2dents lining up 2 be shot until they were posted here, but you must have overlooked the reports of people shielding others and barricading doors. Heroic, even though they failed. My hat is off 2 them.

-ol' 2long

Mine too!!!!!!!!!


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I saw this quote somewhere not too long ago...

"Blaming guns for deaths is like blaming ink pens for words"...

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I agree wholeheartedly with MM. The only thing is that I know at least in my state you can get a concealed weapons permit, but I believe you still can't carry in certain areas. Schools are one of them.


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Cut that out LH.

You've quoted an uncited statistic with a weak suggestion of correllation and absolutely no evidence of causation, then made a veiled accusation of insensitivity to distract attention from the initial weak point.

And I never even suggested taking anybody's guns away. I only suggested a conversation which is clearly not possible.

Lott had his conclusion before he started the book. He and all his "Chicago School" cohort deserve public shame and ridicule for the damage they've done to our nation.

I have no comment on the merits of the book itself. I simply don't trust the author, for good reason.

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A great website with a study on Multiple Victim Shootings and Concealed Carry laws. Found it quite interesting!!

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GC, first, I won't cut anything out. Why are you wanting to silence me? Is there no possibility you can be wrong?

Look, the statistics are out there; they are facts that can't be ignored, no matter how much some want to. If there is no correlation (sic), please explain the cause of the massive decrease. Don’t try to shut me up. That’s dishonest.

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And one last set of stats...from the government...on firearms usage in the U.S.

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Violent crime rates are highest overall in states with laws severely limiting or prohibiting the carrying of concealed firearms for self-defense. (FBI Uniform Crime Reports, 1992) -

The total Violent Crime Rate is 26% higher in the restrictive states (798.3 per 100,000 pop.) than in the less restrictive states (631.6 per 100,000).

The Homicide Rate is 49% higher in the restrictive states (10.1 per 100,000) than in the states with less restrictive CCW laws (6.8 per 100,000).

The Robbery Rate is 58% higher in the restrictive states (289.7 per 100,000) than in the less restrictive states (183.1 per 100,000).

The Aggravated Assault Rate is 15% higher in the restrictive states (455.9 per 100,000) than in the less restrictive states (398.3 per 100,000). Using the most recent FBI data (1992), homicide trends in the 17 states with less restrictive CCW laws compare favorably against national trends, and almost all CCW permittees are law-abiding.

Since adopting CCW (1987), Florida's homicide rate has fallen 21% while the U.S. rate has risen 12%. From start-up 10/1/87 2/28/94 (over 6 yrs.) Florida issued 204,108 permits; only 17 (0.008%) were revoked because permittees later committed crimes (not necessarily violent) in which guns were present (not necessarily used).

Of 14,000 CCW licensees in Oregon, only 4 (0.03%) were convicted of the criminal (not necessarily violent) use or possession of a firearm. Americans use firearms for self-defense more than 2.1 million times annually.

By contrast, there are about 579,000 violent crimes committed annually with firearms of all types. Seventy percent of violent crimes are committed by 7% of criminals, including repeat offenders, many of whom the courts place on probation after conviction, and felons that are paroled before serving their full time behind bars.

Two-thirds of self-protective firearms uses are with handguns.

99.9% of self-defense firearms uses do not result in fatal shootings of criminals, an important factor ignored in certain "studies" that are used to claim that guns are more often misused than used for self-protection. Of incarcerated felons surveyed by the Department of Justice, 34% have been driven away, wounded, or captured by armed citizens; 40% have decided against committing crimes for fear their would-be victims were armed.


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2L, I'm speculating a different course of action may have saved some or even most of those poor kids. I don't know why you ridicule other people's ideas so crassly. Can you not advance a theory without using that tactic?

Say what?

Look folks. Here we are. The massacre happened yes2rday. It's done. We can't change it with "what iffing".

I've been trained in firearms use - needed them for protection in the Arctic - and would consider myself a supporter of the right 2 bear arms. I just don't want one of my own. I like working on old cars and telescopes, not on limited-applicability 2ls like guns. That's just me.

I'd like 2 know how our society can deter murder-suicide in any number? At least in other si2ations, where the murderer remains alive, there can be punishment. How do you deter someone who doesn't believe they'll ever suffer any more if they kill a whole bunch of innocent people before they commit suicide?

That's the issue here. Not gun control.

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Now we've got our armed hero stories. Okay then, that's something.

The hard part is the next bit: how many of those situations would not even have arisen if we didn't live in a civilization so in love with handguns?

Unanswerable.

I walk around unarmed because I'd prefer it if everybody did. This choice is based on a certain philosophical point of view which is not likely shared by everyone here.

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2L, I'm speculating a different course of action may have saved some or even most of those poor kids. I don't know why you ridicule other people's ideas so crassly. Can you not advance a theory without using that tactic?

Say what?

Look folks. Here we are. The massacre happened yes2rday. It's done. We can't change it with "what iffing".

I've been trained in firearms use - needed them for protection in the Arctic - and would consider myself a supporter of the right 2 bear arms. I just don't want one of my own. I like working on old cars and telescopes, not on limited-applicability 2ls like guns. That's just me.

I'd like 2 know how our society can deter murder-suicide in any number? At least in other si2ations, where the murderer remains alive, there can be punishment. How do you deter someone who doesn't believe they'll ever suffer any more if they kill a whole bunch of innocent people before they commit suicide?

That's the issue here. Not gun control.

-ol' 2long

Agreed 2Long!

And my idea of detering a murder-suicide idiot??? Is to help him with the suicide part (shoot him) before he does the murder part.


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I'd like 2 know how our society can deter murder-suicide in any number? At least in other si2ations, where the murderer remains alive, there can be punishment. How do you deter someone who doesn't believe they'll ever suffer any more if they kill a whole bunch of innocent people before they commit suicide?


EXACTLY! You can't! That's why you have to be prepared to defend yourself, your loved ones, and the innocents around you when such crazies come at you. That's why the 2nd Amendment guarantees us the right to have a weapon to repeal the lunatics.

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You mean you don't carry at AGU? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

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LH, nothing in my response suggests I'd like to shut you up. "Cut it out" refers to the questionable use of statistics.

This is one of those conversations which is going nowhere. You don't even know where I stand on these issues. To suggest I'm wrong suggests that you know where I stand.

The only declarative point I've really offered here is to say that Lott's AEI affiliation disqualifies him from influencing my opinion because it indicates to me that he's stupid.

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Now we've got our armed hero stories. Okay then, that's something.

The hard part is the next bit: how many of those situations would not even have arisen if we didn't live in a civilization so in love with handguns?

Unanswerable.

I walk around unarmed because I'd prefer it if everybody did. This choice is based on a certain philosophical point of view which is not likely shared by everyone here.

True. And you are welcome to do so, GC!! That is your right.

Others prefer not to be overtaken by reality. And the reality is that there are evil people in the world that will do bad things to us if we do not protect ourselves.

Using your analogy, then we should shut down our poilice departments because we would prefer everyone just behave. Or shut down our military because we prefer that everyone will not want to kill us or blow us up.

The reality is that nations, communities and individuals obtain safety due to the barrel of a gun. Ignoring that reality means that there are other good men and women that must bear the weight of having to protect those that will not.

When Jesus returns, wars and murder will end. Not until then! So, until that day comes, it is inherent on everyone to provide for their own protection. And if they choose not to? Well, then they really have no right to complain when something bad happens to them.

A friend of mine (woman) once said that she thought it unfair that she couldnt walk alone in downtown Washington, DC. That she might be raped or murdered.

I told her "fine. Then just go out there and ignore the bad guys. Tell them you a re a liberated woman, you are equal to them and that you will not succomb to the fear. And then once you have been raped and if you are still alive...then come back to me and talk about what is not fair."

Life is not fair. Those that get that do better with it.


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