I can encourage, but 1KW seems to need pro help in dealing with her H's transparancy or withdrawal or false recovery issues.

Thanks,
Ace

Thanks for taking an interest in my plight ace!

1KW,

I'm learning right along with all the rest of us newbies on MB. I am so blessed that MB has helped my H and me in just a few months. I want to give back, but I know my limits. If I can encourage, bump for updates, and risk 2X4s to learn more when I do try to advise...it's the least I can do.

You're the first that I've posted a request for help and it's nice you seem to appreciate it. My heart goes out to you b/c of the ages of your children and your efforts to get help for yourself and your M.

Keep posting....Mulan is one of the best and it seems she has similar experiences. I don't have any experience with Plan B, but MarriedForever does. Check out her sitch when you can.

And keep journaling and posting, onethousandwords. BTW our MC is helping my H and me with passive/aggressive issues, too. Never knew we had them, but that's a big part of the root of our separation and detachment over 30+ years.

I won't post on your other thread but I want you to know I'm praying for you and checking that thread as often as I can.

This thread will disappear but it's done its job and it's nice to hear you appreciate my care. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Ace