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Well WXH had to move in with parents...I guess he couldn't afford his apartment anymore.
I'm hoping that this is the beginning of him "hitting bottom" but then again I really don't know if I would take him back even if that's what he wanted.
I'm just wondering why he did not move in with OW...I thought that would be his first choice.
Inquiring minds want to know...
Me-BxW-(36)
Him-WxH-(36)
Married 9 days short of 12 years b/f D was final
5 kids-10 and younger (3 DD & 2 DS)
WH filed for D 11/05
D final 05/06
***Of course you would DIE for your kids, the question is will you LIVE for them***
***Time heals nothing but faith heals everything***
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Maybe he didn't move in with her because they don't trust each other.
AKA
VowsRSacred/ VRS
Me 44 WH 46
dd Mar 7 06
Dday 2 Jan 19 07 EA and PA
DD 19
DS 10
DS 7
DD 4
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Well, I guess I made a false assumption b/c word has it that he is moving into a 3 bedroom house.
He has not told me yet since he has to inform me of his new residence/phone number but that seems to be why he moved in with parents until the house is ready. Also, I guess OW and her kids aren't moving in yet-but I'm sure it will happen.
I'm so disappointed b/c I thought this would be the start of his "hitting bottom".
Why does this hurt so much when I spent all this time not caring?
Me-BxW-(36)
Him-WxH-(36)
Married 9 days short of 12 years b/f D was final
5 kids-10 and younger (3 DD & 2 DS)
WH filed for D 11/05
D final 05/06
***Of course you would DIE for your kids, the question is will you LIVE for them***
***Time heals nothing but faith heals everything***
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I guess OW and her kids aren't moving in yet-but I'm sure it will happen.
= fresh heII for him
blended families are not easy-peasy-lovey-dovey
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I second that...
It takes YEARS for a blended family to fall into place. And believe you me those kids aren't gonna like their new step daddy!
WS-36
BS (me)-28
4 Kids
A started Jan 07
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Then the time came
When the risk it took
to remain tight in a bud
Was more painful than
the risk it took to blossom.
-Anais Nin
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