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Just curious about this, if WW re-marries can I combine his income into her's and lower my CS?

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Probably not. What state do you live in?

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Don't know where you live but I know in MO, where I live, the answer is NO b/c here it is illegal to make someone take care of someone else's children.


Me-BxW-(36) Him-WxH-(36) Married 9 days short of 12 years b/f D was final 5 kids-10 and younger (3 DD & 2 DS) WH filed for D 11/05 D final 05/06 ***Of course you would DIE for your kids, the question is will you LIVE for them*** ***Time heals nothing but faith heals everything***
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I live in NC.

I thought it was the case her but I could be wrong.

What if she gets pregnant and stops working, does the courts assume that is a choice and that she could be working 40 hours so they keep CS based on 40 hours.

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My understanding is that in most states the CS is based on the non-custodial parent's income, and has nothing to do with the income of the custodial parent. Perhaps I'm wrong too... In Texas, the standard calculation is 20% of NET income (after tax based on a standard formula) for the 1st child and an additional 5% for each additional child.

I do know that if the non-custodial parent marries (as my ex-husband did), the new spouses income cannot be considered to increase CS.

By the same token, if I quit my job, it does NOT mean that my ex has to pay even more child support...that would be ridiculous!!!

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Usually if she chooses un- or under-employment, they impute her income for CS purposes at the same amount based on the fact that she COULD be earning that much.

So your CS shouldn't go up for that reason. But I'm not a NC lawyer, so that's not legal advice. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

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Here in MO, they DO include the custodial parents income and if not employed then they base the income on mimimum wage at 40 hours a week. Here in MO, both parents MUST support their children that is why the custodial parents income is included as well.

Hope this helps but you may want to check the laws in the state where you reside.


Me-BxW-(36) Him-WxH-(36) Married 9 days short of 12 years b/f D was final 5 kids-10 and younger (3 DD & 2 DS) WH filed for D 11/05 D final 05/06 ***Of course you would DIE for your kids, the question is will you LIVE for them*** ***Time heals nothing but faith heals everything***

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