Hey FLT2H,

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i want to ask for advice although that seems fruitless. i know what is needed, 15 hrs of time per week. follow MB concepts... but one person can't do it alone. i'm tired.


You're right, one person can't do it alone... but one person (you) CAN work on forgiving yourself.

Mrs. RIF hurt me very deeply, but her actions back then don't define who she is today. I've never forgotten the pain that I felt, but I don't dwell on it now, and I don't ever use the past to beat her up.

Your DH hasn't forgotten the pain either, but unless he brings it up and holds it over your head, then you should accept his forgiveness... He has chosen to stay with you because he loves you and wants to remain married to you.

Semper Fi,

RIF


Me, BS

Her, Forgiven

Married Dec 86

Multiple A's that ended '90

Rebuilding In Faith since then...

Currently deployed to Iraq, but TEXAS is Home!