I am new here, I have read just about everything I can on this site and have ordered the book 'Marriage Busters'. It turns out I have made just about every mistake you can. I have been separated from my husband for about a month, and have done a lot of soul searching to try to figure out what went wrong, and how to make it right. I have learned a lot about myself, him, and my priorities.

I met with him this afternoon to talk about things, apologize, and to see if he would be willing to give it one more try, and am waiting for his response. I told him I did not want an answer now, to take his time, and let me know when he has come to a decision.

I am asking for your prayers for our marriage, that he will give us one more try, and give us a fair chance to rebuild our marriage. Thank you.

Worthsaving,

Our prayers are with you. FWIW there are probably a half a dozen others that are also praying for you even though they haven't responded to you directly.

Bless you.

S&C

Thank you, I have been praying for others as well.

You are in my prayers too.

The wait is over, he met with me today and told me he is empty, that he does not want to give it another chance because he does not want to go through this again in six months. I don't know what to do. He still wears his ring, I still wear mine. I don't know how to do this, I don't want to just give up on our marriage, and I don't seem to have a choice. He asked about going to lunch next week, because he enjoys being with and talking to me when I am like this (following the MB communication skills). I don't get it, He is dealing with the tradgic deaths of two of our friends right now as well, we both are. I don't know what to do. I don't know if I should still hold out some sort of hope because maybe he is confused, or if I should just sit here and try to remember to breathe between crying hysterically.

Please pray for us, that god will make things clear for both of us. Thank you.