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Can you help Capitan? Capitan's thread

I know there are others here, too, like HealingBird...I just can't think of all of those who have been in the military life and dealt with infidelity.

I think it matters because he posted that he'll only be home a total of six months in the next two years...

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Hey LA - I'll take a look and see if I can be of any help...

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Loving,
I am a military contractor and my WW started her affair right before I came over to the Middle East about 14 months ago. I found out about it 2 months after I got here. I have been here a couple of days over a year and go home in 13 days for good. I am so sorry you are going through this. I know how you feel. My wife said pretty much the same crap to me, including bringing OM around our kids so much that they were calling me by his name. He was a loser too. He was an alcoholic, ex-convict (her first love, how sweet LOL). Anyway, my WW and I are going to start recovery when I get home. This has been the hardest thing I have ever had to deal with, but God got me through it. Again, I am so sorry you are here. Listen to the pro's on here because they know what they are talking about. They gave me GREAT advice for my situation.


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Loving,
Sorry for posting on wrong thread.


Romans 8:28-All things work together for good for those that love the Lord and are called according to His purpose.
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RIF and GHA...

Thank you very much for your responses to Cap's thread.

I just saw Mortarman add his post as well.

I'm taking this post as an opportunity to express what beauty I see in posters' efforts here on MB...why I think the blessing ripples, widens as it goes...and my heart just took a big hit from seeing your responses. In a great way.

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Thank YOU very much.

LA


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