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Welcome to MB, tarita. One question..how do you KNOW she is a lesbian?
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Update? How did the visit with OC go?
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geesh, I don't know how you are holding up with the information and now you are "watching" the baby overnight.
Do you think that this will just all be ok?
I think this is going to come back to haunt you at some point, your H works with OW,,is the A still happening?
Me-49 and staying there, course AARP sent me my card ugh
H-49
DD and SIL
GS the light of my life! 1 and a half, full of you know what
DS med school
always working on me
•The greatness of a nation and its moral progress can be judged by the way its animals are treated. Ghandi
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Tarita, this is an odd situation. I have known lesbian women who have forgone the cost of artificial insemination
to have a child, by striking a deal with an STD clean gay man. They do it so they and their partner can have a child. If your H's name is not on the BC and if he is not supporting this child, be prepared for some heartbreak.
Take care of the legalities, and be sure that this is in fact a lesbian and not a bisexual woman.
Gurard your heart
Marriages don't fail, people do.
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What I am saying, if she is a true lesbian, used your H for a sperm donor,and got the resulting child, he has outlived his usefullness. She will want to parent this child with her
partner and she will eventually phase your H our of the situation. Unless, of course, they came to an understanding
beforehand.
Marriages don't fail, people do.
(And I don't recall who said it)
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