I was just wondering if it was O.K to email posters if their email address is on their profile.

I just found out that ExH knows I post here and knows my user name. Even though we are D'd, I would rather not have him read my stuff. This is the only place I felt safe.

WOF5 had helped me in my previous posts, but I do not see an email address for her. Others have also helped me, and I do see addresses for them, just didn't know if it was O.K to do this.

Things are worse than ever now, never thought they could be, and I really need someone to talk to.

Thanks!

You can change your poster name. If you want to e-mail me, you can. My addy: **edit**

take care,
L.

I was thinking of changing my poster name, but ExH found me by just snooping aroung the posts, and I'm sure he'd put 2 and 2 together if I had to tell everyone who my previous name was, as I wouldn't want to go into it all over again.

Thanks Orchid I will take you up on that. I appreciate it!

I let mine read my posts. Didn't offer but you know how curious a WS c/b when he knows he is losing control of the BS. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

So I used that opportunity to post stuff I knew he needed to know but was too dumb to listen to me. I spoke to him via 3rd party methods because that is how they communicate with the mothership. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> LOL!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

When the WS would get angry at my posts for 'exposing' his ways to the internet and invading his privacy, I used that babble against him as well and told him as long as he didn't meet my needs, I would continue to post. HA HA!!! Well as a WS he couldn't meet my needs so I posted.

See there are ways to throw back their illogic. It is called reverse babble. It can leave 'em twitching, like it short circuits their minds or something. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

So even if he finds this response, no biggie. So he knows what you might do..... so what? Don't worry. As a BS, you've got nothing to hide. But a WS does and that is where he will be spending most of his brain time...trying to make up stuff and hide stuff. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> Let him. It will keep him out of your hair. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

L.