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Is it unethical to copy and post here?
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na, I don't think so...........
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"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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TOW - Check out the first post in endings. Causing quite a stir over there.
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What was she expecting?????
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I'm confused as to where you guys are reading?
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well gloryb
Why are you even reading there folks?
Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
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Empty Nesters.
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BigK - I'm on nursing duty all night with my dad. The board there goes on all night long. Here it's only those in Afghanistan (Sorry RIF), and the Aussies.
Jashley - It's not recommended for folks still going through this stuff. And the only thing you learn is that affairs end.
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Ooops - it's the welcome to endings post.
Anyway, it is interesting to compare with MB principles. For one thing, before D-day, the affairees can pretend that it is a secret, they can't have people know, they can't hurt their family, etc. After D-day, it puts a HUGE strain on the affair when the found out person doesn't leave the marriage. It kind of takes away the excuses.
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Hey believer, not sure if I read on the Same thread as you or not .......but I did read a few tidbits that can have some relevance here as well. All of these happen to deal with the importance of true NC! [Even though coming from the other sides point of view] *********************** Remember this when your WS wants to still see, work or be around the OP: ~ "Can we still be friends" = "Can we still have sex sometime" ************************ Showing there cannot be any InBetween concerning adultery .....your either IN it or your completely OUT of it: ~ No Contact IS the best. Take the power back and keep it otherwise you will remain in limbo H*LL indefinitely. ************************* This one probably sums it up the Best: ~ "No contact doesn't open up the gates of heaven and let you in, it opens up the gates of H*LL and lets you out" ________________________ Don't fear reading on the endings board .......those gals are the ones that actually somewhat Get It. It really lets you see how it usually ends up ....badly for all involved. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" /> edit - bad words - {hey, I was just copying what they wrote ....leave me be) <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />
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