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Don't exagerate the why of why I was edited.. you were too!
The proof of what was said is long gone. So don't insinuate you know what was said when you have as much idea as anyone else.

The thing I know for sure is I didn't call anyone a ...

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Mel, I have no intention of getting into "taking sides" on this current spat between Members. But, (you knew there was "but" in there, right?) this "getting smacked back" is the problem, isn't it?

It certainly seems to be a continuing problem for LadyLayla as we can see here.

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There ARE folks on the system who feel it is their right to "smack anyone" they feel like smacking, justifying and rationalizing that behavior however they find "good enough" in their own minds. What "sets off" that "smacking?"

Who knows, but it does seem that LL feels quite entitled to come here and do some smacking when the spirit moves her. She only objects when her subjects don't take kindly to that. Now where is that definition of insanity?

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Discussion gives way to argument. Toleration of divergent opinions gives way to intolerance. Closely held beliefs become a rationalization for engaging in the very type of posting that would be offensive if it were directed AT themselves. "Knight in shining armor" syndrome brings out the warhorses. "Florence Nightengale" syndrome "excuses" poor action on the part of the member and how they respond because of the rationalization that they are "defending the weaker."

Of course, but that is the way of any forum with divergant opinions and agendas, isn't it? I know that I get tired of it myself sometimes and have recently wanted to take a break, so I know how Mimi feels. With all the recent trolls like LadyLayla and her ilk I may not be too far behind Mimi.


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Don't exagerate the why of why I was edited.. you were too!
The proof of what was said is long gone. So don't insinuate you know what was said when you have as much idea as anyone else.

The thing I know for sure is I didn't call anyone a ...

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LL, you know very well I did not call you a name, you called me a name and instigated that whole exchange. You and I both know you only come over here for the sole purpose of raising a little he11 and making attacks on members. You have been particularly targeting ME for years with your personal attacks.

Truth be told, LL, you have written some extremely hateful, unkind, UNWARRANTED things about ME and to me in the past. They were so nasty that they were removed by the mods. I never bothered you; you sought me out for PERSONAL attacks.

How many years have you been whining about how mean old MelodyLane "ran me off?" For someone who was "run off" you sure do come back a lot. You don't appear to be too "run off." When will you be following through on that promise, LL?

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There is much much more and it gets worse

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so, thank you for pointing that out. so, you made 2 comments about me that were wrong.

and harassing and inaccurate is your standard. nothing wrong about that.

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ummmmm, what was that I said about not dishing it out if you can't take it, LL? Did you expect roses after making such a nasty, hostile remark to MEDC? This is your MO, make a nasty, unkind remark and then scream victim when your target gives it back to you.

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Is it too early for popcorn?


LOL ... no ...have some of mine

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No thanks...I best stick to my own.

At least I know it is not laced with any venom.

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