I saw your posts on two other threads. Welcome to MarriageBuilders. My advice is for you to make your own thread...you can do so by clicking on "Main Index" in the gold bar near the top of your screen, then on "General Questions II" forum or "Recovery" forum...and then click on "post".

That's what I did...and put your name in the Subject.

You can copy and paste your post from Paradise_Blue's thread using ctrl-c and ctrl-v...

Recovery is tough...I couldn't imagine getting through it if my WH still worked with OW...and he did for a short while after ending it with her. Then he transferred.

You'll receive a lot of help from great posters here...hope this helps.