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word on the street is that OW, i.e., my exes ho, has a new man on the side..

she started a new job a few months back, a field predominately male. she LOVES male attention, laps it right up. it was only a matter of time.

if they will do it with you, they will do it to you.
what comes around, goes around.
God takes care of his own.

this would explain some things of late in how my ex has been acting.

this would explain why all of a sudden he wants his name off of the house.

think maybe he wants or NEEDS to go and buy a place of his own? hmmm...

considering he lives in HER house that SHE bought. considering she cosigned for him to get 2 new cars in the past year or so. considering she pays most of the bills.
she's got him right where she wants him. he has to defer to her on all things because financially she holds all the strings.

couldn't happen to a nicer guy.

*snickers*

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i can't wait til this house sells.
i can't wait for the kids and i to get out of here and start a new life.

i'll have to post later what happened last night.

my ex has completely lost his mind.

more later.

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I so look foreward to the day I can post my ex has hit rock bottom.


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Wow I love a happy ending.....!!!


Trying to Let myself find a life after four years of being divorced - Great at the mom thing.. Just not good at the "ME" thing....
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where's our update young lady?????

Don't ya love Karma?

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You know, my ex has told me "I think you hope I go to Texas and fail!" And I'd admit there's part of me (I'm not exactly proud of this part) does want her to fail, to say "Ha, you couldn't do it without me!" Mostly, though, I'm not big on revenge. Hating someone is a waste of energy I could be using for better purposes. I do believe in karma, and so it doesn't shock me to hear what's happening to your ex and the OW.

I heard it a long time ago at "Someone who cheats with you is very likely to cheat on you." The statistics given on affairs actually making it to marriage and on affairages actually being successful bear this out. I'm glad to see you moving on, Michelle! And yeah, where's the update.

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word on the street is that OW, i.e., my exes ho, has a new man on the side.. ...couldn't happen to a nicer guy. .

Yeah, gotta love it <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />.

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yes, i shall have to keep you all updated on this bit of news... i am interested to see what unfolds in the coming weeks and months.

eye, i am not one for revenge at all. maybe in the beginning i thought some pretty evil thoughts. but, as the years have gone by i am more under the mindset that "revenge is mine sayeth the lord". i just sit back and watch these days.

just motivates me even more to live the BEST life i can live and to accomplish all of the goals i have for myself.

my story concerns how my ex has been acting around my kids.
he completely was a jerk to my son last night to the point he made him cry so hard he was hyperventilating (and my son hardly ever cries). oh, he got a piece of my mind over that one!

then, apparently he has been making as a** of himself at my son's last 2 hockey games to where all of the parents are mad at him! lol yup, his true colors are finally showing for all the world to see :-)

we will all be soooo much better off moving away from here. i can't wait.

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THE SWEETEST REVENGE...IS A LIFE WELL-LIVED!!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

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THE SWEETEST REVENGE...IS A LIFE WELL-LIVED!!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Amen to this!

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Yes, it will eventually catch up to them (WS).

My FWH was engaged to MOW, their engagement lasted less than a month. He found out she was calling another guy. FWH was running out of money, so MOW started lining someone up to fall back on.

FWH since filed for bankruptcy.


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