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((((Queenie))))

There you go honey.....put yourself in G-d's hands and get to thinking and hyou come up with some good stuff. Yes, you cannot fix today, and no need to worry about tomorrow...it only "borrowing trouble".....


And honestly, I don't think you need to worry about what G-d may be trying to teach you at the moment....it may be not what you think anyway. Just lean on Him, and he will take care of you.....and you will be fine. Heck, you will be better than fine, because you are alive, and healthy and beautiful.....

now, what the heck is Amway???

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now, what the heck is Amway???
YOU HAVE MADE MY DAY...

LOL

Amyway is a soap business for over 40 years that has good and bad connotations to it. People can get involved IF they want, but really I just want to sell any products from water, to soap, to makeup and earn money to support my kids.

Many have very strong opinions which I don't want to get involved in. I just want to put it out there and if someone wants something then they can contact me. So you are all SAFE.

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G-d certainly is giving me a little more experience in learning how to not control something or understand that I have NO CONTROl in things.

That's one of the things that drew me to God. The realization that I have no control over anything and that God has control over everything... In many ways knowing and accepting that is like a weight of resposibilty has been lifted off my shoulders. It's in God's hands.... it's always been in God's hands and it will always in Gods hands... I just need to learn to listen to him and follow HIS plan...



I understand that you and I aren't of the same religion... But we do have the same God.

Correct?


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I just need to learn to listen to him and follow HIS plan...
I'm trying.. I just seem to be not hearing as well or not seeing it as clearly.

But I am not giving up. smile

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I understand that you and I aren't of the same religion... But we do have the same God.

Correct?
ABSOLUTELY CORRECT....




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I did AMWAY a long time ago....

I liked alot of their products... I bought some light bulbs from amway ... I had a couple that lasted 7 years... And I bought them in 1993.


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She's Jewish...

Ok..do you all feel like we are the only 3 people on here tonight???

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You've got mail.


I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
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Amazin, do you want to buy anymore products? I have access to LOTS and LOTS....

JJ, I do feel like we are the only ones on, and I am thinking I should be heading out the door to my alanon and aa meetings. I need space in my head taken up.

You sound good tonight.

Gotcha Mimi wink

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Queenie, how could I contact you to buy something?


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Amazin, do you want to buy anymore products? I have access to LOTS and LOTS....

I might be persuaded ... I'd need a catalog or something...So I can see what ya got...


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cool... I'll check it out...


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Got it!


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Thanks Amazin and Chrysalis,

I appreciate the support.


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Ok..do you all feel like we are the only 3 people on here tonight???
Let's see...Queenie, Amazin, JJ, Chrys, Mimi...Oh look, I make at least 5...


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hey Mark.....

its good to see you, my boy......glad to see ya lurking around these parts tonight....and hey it was just the 3 of us for long time there.....lol

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Gee thanks Mark - I'm chopped Goddess tonight I guess...


Cafe Plan B link http://forum.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2182650&page=1

The ? that made recovery possible: "Which lovebuster do I do the most that hurts the worst"?

The statement that signaled my personal recovery and the turning point in our marriage recovery: "I don't need to be married that badly!"

If you're interested in saving your relationship, you'll work on it when it's convenient. If you're committed, you'll accept no excuses.
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Originally Posted by KaylaAndy
Gee thanks Mark - I'm chopped Goddess tonight I guess...

thanks for my first good laugh tonight.... laugh

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Hi

I am home from my meeting.... How are you?


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much better..I'm at my neighbors on her computer....long story....anyway, DD11 wasn't feeling well so I had to go and make her feel better and then DD14 came home and had a GREAT talk with her....so I am doing well. Like I told my sis....nothing like your kids troubles to pull me out of my pity party....

Anyway, I am headed home and going to snuggle with my kiddies and have agreat night sleep....

see ya in the morning hon....

jj

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