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Can you start Plan A if spouse has left the home?
#2066568 06/01/08 12:47 PM
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I'm new here, I've been lurking for a few weeks, trying to figure out this mess.

I've been married 6 years,and we have a 2 year old. My husband has had 2 affairs in the last 5 months. OW #1 was a woman involved kissing and fondling and OW#2 nothing physical has happened but their relationship is inappropriate texting and phone calls all hours of the night, and he admitted to thinking about getting physical with her.He is mostly looking for one night stands IMO.

I am deeply religious and am standing for my marriage. I do not believe in divorce.

My husband moved out of the house 3 nights ago. He is living with his parents. Upon my pastors recommendation I have been reading surviving an affair.

Because my husband has moved out of our marital home, can I still do plan A? Or do I immediatly have to go to plan B?

Thank you.
Re: Can you start Plan A if spouse has left the home?
covenantbride #2066575 06/01/08 01:15 PM
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Hi CB, welcome to MB,so sorry that u r here under such circumstances. I am a newbie here, but from what I am learning,u can definitely implement Plan A while spouse has left, which is the same scenario as mine.
Only difference is that mine has moved in with OW, so you are definitely in a better position.
Also, might be worth copying this into the general questions section as more people visit there.
Good luck

Married 6 yrs
No children
A started in Dec 07
I found out Feb 08
Re: Can you start Plan A if spouse has left the ho
browneyes35 #2066578 06/01/08 01:20 PM
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Thank you. I will post there. Just from your signature I see we have a similarity. His affair also started in Dec, and I found out in feb.

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Re: Can you start Plan A if spouse has left the ho
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Is your husband a believer?
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He beleives in God, knows the Bible is truth, but does not have a personal relationship with Christ at the moment. He thinks hs has done to much bad to have Christ's forgiveness.

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