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Hi Chai,
I'll log onto work and get the phone number from you.
So, WH has been quite active today. He is out there stirring up drama bringing my daughter into it.
WH has changed the password on our cell phone family account. Called my DD and told her that if I didn't go down and put the account in my name he was shutting the phones off.
She is miss drama queen and just got back a cell phone so she is freaking on me. I have to admit at first I was hurt that he would do this, but heck why not. He seems to have this need to stir up drama or reinforce that our M is over, blah blah.
Ironically, why now? Well, he isn't as smart as he thinks he is. I called the company and the account is in his name, so he will therefore be responsible for the bill in it's entirety plus any early cancellation fees. My name isn't anywhere near there. So it would cost him 175.00 per at least 4 phones, maybe 5.
They will continue to go after him b/c I won't pay the bill. And I am certainly not going to react to his threat that if I don't do it by Friday.
So, am I off the mark here on what I am thinking, let him do it. Let him absorb the bill. Let him be responsible for setting off his daughter in a frenzy and putting her in the middle to get ahold of me.
What cha think?
One more notworthy thing. I have stepped up my praying for G-d to keep bringing him the plagues. Could it possibly be working? I have been praying day and night for G-d to bring WH down and have WH reach out to G-d for a relationship. Can you please help me keep the prayers up?
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let him do it. Let him absorb the bill. Let him be responsible for setting off his daughter in a frenzy and putting her in the middle to get ahold of me. EXACTLY..HE MUST SUFFER... I have stepped up my praying for G-d to keep bringing him the plagues. I have been praying day and night for G-d to bring WH down GOOD WORK... That was MY PRAYER..when my H was a wayward... WORKED in my situation..but it's GOD'S PLAN...
I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
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Hey Mimi,
Can we talk more private, there is more information here.
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I don't wanna hear about your WH's drama.
HE doesn't exist....
I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
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I did darn good, didnt I.
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I agree he must suffer. Keep strong Queenie
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I think we all agree he needs to suffer.
I am staying strong. I keep praying and seeking G-d for protection.
How are you Pretty. You are up late, how come?
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Just got home from work and on here reading whats going on with everyone.
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You must be tired.
How was your day?
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I woke up with a really bad headache took some tylenol went back to sleep till it was noon and spent an hr with the family *I know not long at all* Then off to work.
I need to find another job. I hate working these hrs and well thats a whole different story!
How was your day? Besides drama for a bit.
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Let's see, laying out at the pool, working on my tan, relaxing and spending the night alone. Not bad actually.
What is your job?
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Im an assistant manager with Exxon. Im off tomorrow
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Oh that's totally cool. What are you doing.
Is your husband up with you? Can you go wake him up and talk with him?
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Oh hes up and reading posts on here!! And answering a few too.
He made me dinner so Im eatting!!
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Who is your husband on here?
I'm lost, you both had affairs?
He's making you dinner? How cool is that.
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Now hes trying to steal my dinner.
As for my DH and I we both have had A's
I had an A in 99. I made my way back in "forcefully" his life. I came back pregnante with OM child. But broke all contact with OM even when it came to decided the OC future. I gave the OC up for adoption *its open and she lives in Mississippi*. During my A and coming back to the M. DH had a RA and lied to me about it. Till 2007. He came clean with his RA. A few months later came clean with his porn addiction, thanks to MB. I came to MB with the porn addiction and the discovery of the RA to see what he kept telling me months of why he was on here.
He is RMX.
Because of such a late night he made me a small pizza!!
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Wow, I didn't realize, I see his postings every so often.
Mazel Tov to you both for making it work.
I have to ask, do you think there is any hope in my sitch that WH will come to his senses and come home one day?
Personally I would let him have the dinner.
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I realized I don't know what RA is?
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Thank you.
I hope your H realizes what hes missing. You seem to be a very nice person.
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I realized I don't know what RA is? revenge affair
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