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Alot find Sean Connery cute. I just like his voice LoL


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!! blush !!

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Oh, my!!!! They have been shocked into silence. Or, have they all headed to the shower?

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lol

Guess they had to take there 2nds showers for the day??? I should be off of here and spending time with DH he will be gone for 3 days frown


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Hey, can I play this game too?


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The more the happier Chai !!! Im sure Queenie wont mind????


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OK, What's Cinderella's favorite color?


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Hmmmm....for what? I don't know that I really have a favorite color though I DEFINITELY have a favorite color combination...always have......since way back in childhood....blue and green....just not olive or chartreuse.

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Oh, I thought it was flesh grin


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6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.

9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me

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Is it ash?


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"I may not know what the future holds, but I know who holds my future." -Martin Luther

Remarried my FXH 25 years to the day of our first M. God is so good-and sometimes so unexpected!

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Originally Posted by ChaiLover
Oh, I thought it was flesh grin



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Oh, dear!!!

Color me SO EMBARASSED.

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So where did the lady who runs this thread disappear too? Its one looonnngggg shower ??!!?? smile smile


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Yeah, I suppose they were so shocked they were driven over the edge. Maybe they had business to attend to before the shower. Maybe, maybe......I don't know.....They get a message from The Diplomat and they disappear. Were they that embarrassed? To have been discussing his suitability or unsuitability and then he shows up after suggestions that he might need to be unsuited?

I don't know what happened.

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ok who and what is up with the diplomat anyways?


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Yeah, I guess I'm a little lost too. I thought we were talking about a guy who looked good in AND out of a suit. confused

Anyway, for most of us that would probably be just about any guy right now shocked


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6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.

9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me

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Yeah I guess Im the odd ball out of this bunch. Atleast at the moment. But oh well life goes on smile Im just glad I am making friends and have support if needed!!!


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The Diplomat is for real. That is the term I coined for the man I have been seeing for several years. It goes back to my Kingdom Of Caerlon thread on the D/D board.

I was uncomfortable with the term boyfriend. I always thought in terms of boyfriends being something you had in your teens or 20s. Not in your....... KWIM? So, I didn't want to call him my boyfriend and I couldn't find another term. Plus, there were other's feelings to take into consideration way back when. So, he became The Diplomat. Wouldn't a princess hang out with a man of caliber and diplomacy and status?

So, since The Diplomat gifted me with 3 nights at a hotel for my vacation, someone thought I was spending them with him but I'm not. I'm spending them with my daughter....it was to be both children but son backed out. If he wants to be that cantankerous, maybe he should stay home (but the computer modem really needs a vacation so I'm not leaving it for him when he comes to deal with the dog. Nope.....no computer for Mister Grumpy Gus.

So, they were teasing me and trying to get info about The Diplomat and I said something about him being suitable for a princess which lead to the comments about unsuitability in the context of the state of dress (suitability) makes SF less easy while the state of undress (unsuitability) makes SF easier.

That is what has been going on.

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Now I get it... smile Thank you for sharing and as long as princess is happy is what matters...

And I agree 100 percent now in the future i wont feel stupid for not knowing:)


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Well, it all started over my vacation. How were you to know...that discussion goes back several nights.

See, you were actually smart! You KNEW you didn't know what was going on.

Meanwhile, all the rest of them are busy turning into prunes.

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