Welcome to the
Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum

This is a community where people come in search of marriage related support, answers, or encouragement. Also, information about the Marriage Builders principles can be found in the books available for sale in the Marriage Builders® Bookstore.
If you would like to join our guidance forum, please read the Announcement Forum for instructions, rules, & guidelines.
The members of this community are peers and not professionals. Professional coaching is available by clicking on the link titled Coaching Center at the top of this page.
We trust that you will find the Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum to be a helpful resource for you. We look forward to your participation.
Once you have reviewed all the FAQ, tech support and announcement information, if you still have problems that are not addressed, please e-mail the administrators at mbrestored@gmail.com
Previous Thread
Next Thread
Print Thread
Page 3 of 20 1 2 3 4 5 19 20
Joined: Aug 2005
Posts: 998
C
Member
Offline
Member
C
Joined: Aug 2005
Posts: 998
What I find funny is that the Dems were most probably behind all of this info about McCain being an adulterer. Weren't they all the ones who said that Clinton's sex life (while in the White House and lying to the Grand Jury) was none of our business?

Joined: Sep 2003
Posts: 5,736
E
Member
Offline
Member
E
Joined: Sep 2003
Posts: 5,736
Originally Posted by catperson
Quote
Okay, and your link provides what information?
That the book is an unabashed smear campaign set up by people who do it on purpose to sway elections and that the material in the book is highly suspect if not downright lies?

Republican groups buying up thousands of books - in bulk - so that it gets onto the New York Times Bestsellers List to give it legitimacy, so that people will feel compelled to discuss it?

Republican groups using automated, orchestrated communication methods to get people to push it to the front of the public eye so as to legitimize it, as well as all the email campaigns I'm sure you've seen, such as the racist caricature I just received yesterday?

It worked with you.

You asked me to point out any of your DJ's.

Well, here you go, this post is certainly a DJ. You can disagree with someone, but do you have to do it with a DJ?

I'm not saying others are not as well.

But you asked me to specifically tell you when you DJ, so here is an example.

Joined: Apr 2002
Posts: 3,474
C
Member
Offline
Member
C
Joined: Apr 2002
Posts: 3,474
I think a person's personal conduct is a reflection of their character and should be considered when voting for them. Not the only consideration. Not the most important consideration. But an important consideration.

John McCain did leave his wife who had been crippled in a car accident. Yes, he changed as a result of being a POW, and she changed as a result of her car accident. Lots of people deal with spouses who change due to life experiences or physical changes.

John Edwards had a son die and had to deal with a wife with cancer. Did that change him? Yes. But it doesn't excuse his behavior.

I considered voting for Obama, but I just couldn't. It's not his race. It's not that he's inexperienced. It's that he's off the charts liberal.

Cherished

Joined: Aug 2000
Posts: 245
S
Member
Offline
Member
S
Joined: Aug 2000
Posts: 245
Originally Posted by lousygolfer
Mr Sowell has his issues with Obama and McCain.

But he didn't write that.

LG

I found the column here How Do We Handle the Misinformation?
identified as an anonymous email from a "Senator Bob".

For some authentic Thomas Sowell (linked from his website):
Race and Politics 03/18/08

Obama and McCain 06/05/08




Joined: Apr 2001
Posts: 92,985
Likes: 1
M
Member
Offline
Member
M
Joined: Apr 2001
Posts: 92,985
Likes: 1
Originally Posted by lousygolfer
MEL:

This is a "Shout out" to have you delete that racist diatribe attributed to Thomas Sowell.

He did NOT write that.

Thomas Sowell Article

Mr Sowell has his issues with Obama and McCain.

But he didn't write that.

LG



grrr, thanks for the heads up, LG! I had received that column in the email. I am going to delete it now. Sorry, folks! I looked and looked for the article on his archive this morning and ran out of time.


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

Exposure 101


Joined: Mar 2008
Posts: 24
H
Junior Member
Offline
Junior Member
H
Joined: Mar 2008
Posts: 24
Originally Posted by catperson
Quote
Okay, and your link provides what information?
That the book is an unabashed smear campaign set up by people who do it on purpose to sway elections and that the material in the book is highly suspect if not downright lies?

Republican groups buying up thousands of books - in bulk - so that it gets onto the New York Times Bestsellers List to give it legitimacy, so that people will feel compelled to discuss it?

Republican groups using automated, orchestrated communication methods to get people to push it to the front of the public eye so as to legitimize it, as well as all the email campaigns I'm sure you've seen, such as the racist caricature I just received yesterday?

It worked with you.

Please point out the lies. I want to be sure I get the facts strait. How about three? That should be easy. Take the challenge, identify and provide facts that dispel just three lies so I can understand what Obama stands for. Feelings, hate, or character attacks don't count nor do references to ghost conspirators or reverences to Rove.

Joined: Apr 2005
Posts: 4,458
T
Member
Offline
Member
T
Joined: Apr 2005
Posts: 4,458
Originally Posted by mimi_here
T&L

I would think that you are open-minded enough to read OBAMA'S other books that he has written about himself and his life.

I would be surprised if you are not.

I would be surprised if you would read only one side.


OK, Mimi, let me take a minute to respond to you. No, I am not going to read Obama's other books that he's written about himself and his life, and it has nothing to do with whether or not I am open-minded. I think it has more to do with not being interested enough to voluntarily, at age 60 and running out of time, delve into the writings of someone I know that I will never, EVER vote for. I deny that this is a race-based decision, nor is it Republican. I'm not, as I stated earlier, voting for John McCain either, although we do share skin tone. I am neither charmed by his race, nor repelled by it; personally, I wouldn't care if Obama were chartreuse. I have profound, irrevocable disagreements with Obama's openly-stated policies and beliefs, clearly on record--aside from ANY book--and available to anyone who wants to review them. I could not in good conscience give him either my support or my vote.

But you expressed surprise that I might read only one side. I've already read extensively about both sides and have made my decision based on that. How about you, though? Would you consider yourself to be not open-minded for not reading Corsi's book? Or am I incorrect in assuming that you have no intention whatsoever of checking out the other side for yourself? I'm truly not asking this to be confrontational, or even to pressure you into a public answer. But since you wanted that standard to be applied to me, I at least want you to consider what it would mean if it were also applied to you.

I will be glad when this election cycle is over.

Joined: Aug 2006
Posts: 3,862
M
Member
Offline
Member
M
Joined: Aug 2006
Posts: 3,862
I'm a conservative too, but won't be reading Corsi's book.

IMO, he's a nut.

See here----> LINK

I think a better critique of Obama is this book---> LINK

Oh and it looks like the Obama team wasn't exactly truthful about the criticisms of Corsi's book either----> LINK

Joined: Dec 2002
Posts: 15,310
M
Member
Offline
Member
M
Joined: Dec 2002
Posts: 15,310
T&L:


Quote
I am neither charmed by his race, nor repelled by it; personally, I wouldn't care if Obama were chartreuse.


I didn't make any references about RACE in my post to YOU... dontknow..Why did you think I thought it mattered to you?

Quote
won't be reading Corsi's book.

IMO, he's a nut.

I agree with Marsh on this...

I read ALL KINDS of BOOKS about ALL KINDS of things...I'm an AVID READER...I LOVE reading MEMOIRS and for THAT REASON ALONE loved reading OBAMA's first book. His LIFE EXPERIENCES have been DIFFERENT and INTERESTING..IMO...and in MANY WAYS like mine so I relate to a lot of what he is speaking about...

That's why I asked that question to you..

'Cause I really do TRY to take a look at ALL SIDES...mostly for LEARNING and GROWING..

ETA: And as I've said before, I'm not much INTO POLITICS..I am INTO READING...


I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
Joined: Apr 2005
Posts: 4,458
T
Member
Offline
Member
T
Joined: Apr 2005
Posts: 4,458
Quote
Why did you think I thought it mattered to you?

Not necessarily from anything you have said on this thread, but I thought I remember that you have engaged in some rather spirited discussions on race on other threads in the past. That's probably why. I completely sympathize with your obsessive reading. I read at stoplights waiting for the light to change. I ALWAYS have a book available to stave off unexpected boredom. Read on...

Joined: Sep 2003
Posts: 27,069
B
Member
Offline
Member
B
Joined: Sep 2003
Posts: 27,069
Well, I won't be voting for either one, either.

John McCain abandoned his wife. She was in a car accident and badly injured. But she didn't want him to know, while he was a POW.

By the way, I have the highest regard for him as a hero.

However, I will never vote for an unrepentent adulterer. His story is still that they had grown apart.

I LIKE Obama - he is young, wants change, good looking, faithful, and raring to go. But I will never vote for anyone who is pro- choice.

I do feel like our candidates have a lot lacking. An adulterer, married to his affair partner, or a man who has a good life but would deny that life to the unborn.

Joined: Dec 2002
Posts: 15,310
M
Member
Offline
Member
M
Joined: Dec 2002
Posts: 15,310
Quote
I read at stoplights waiting for the light to change.

ME, TOO!! We do have this in common... smile


I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
Joined: Jun 2004
Posts: 4,178
G
Member
Offline
Member
G
Joined: Jun 2004
Posts: 4,178
I love it when these people write books with lots of footnotes, then when interviewed use the number of footnotes as some sort of measure of the validity of their work. "My book has 1000 footnotes! So you know it's good!"

It's adorable, don't you think?

I also love it when cable news interviewers take this Corsi person seriously. It's so cute. I see it and go, "Aaaaaaaaw." I just want to tousle their hair and pinch their cheeks. His, too. I say, "Look how they play at being grownups!"

I try not to think of the consequences.

Joined: May 2002
Posts: 9,015
F
Member
Offline
Member
F
Joined: May 2002
Posts: 9,015
Quote
I love it when these people write books with lots of footnotes, then when interviewed use the number of footnotes as some sort of measure of the validity of their work. "My book has 1000 footnotes! So you know it's good!"

It's adorable, don't you think?

Methinks the Obamaites "doth protest too much."

Isn't that just adorable?

ad hominem attacks? Seems to be plentyful.

Dispute the facts? Sure, just like John Kerry did. "On balance" how many of those "footnotes," proof statements and references, are demonstably "wrong" and how many are "right on?"

For a man who runs his entire campaign on some nebulous mesmerizing mantra of "Change," he is remarkably lacking in any specifics and scarily lacking in any experience other than tromping on anyone who stands in his way of getting what he wants, beginning with his race for a seat in the Illinios legislature. Now, with his "vast" experience and some 143 days in the US Senate where he managed to secure "the most liberal Senator" factual label for himself, he wants us to believe that the "Change" he wants for America is good?

For example, there is a longtime member of MB whose husband wants "Change" for their marriage. His "past associations and history" show clearly WHAT sort of "change" HE wants for the marriage. His "compromise (since his wife wants nothing to do with his "idea" of "change") is to get her to agree to having an "open marriage." That's HIS "vision" for change and for what marriage (at least HIS marriage) should be. That's Barak and his "vision" for change for America. Destroy all that is good and sacred about this great nation because he "has a better idea for changes" that what has worked for centuries.

Some will believe him. Some will vote for "charisma" over substance. Some will vote simply because he's black. Some will vote because THEY want government to control everything and turn our nation into a socialist state.

But few will consider what the ROLE of the President is, and few will "lay the blame for the state of the nation" where it really belongs, with the elected representatives of the people, the Congress, when they decide who will be the best Commander in Chief among the TWO choices we are being presented with to protect and defend the Constitution of the UNITED STATES and not some other country, and who will be the Chief Executive to carry out the Laws enacted by the Congress.

Experience COUNTS. And Obama has NONE. What he HAS done with his "getting his feet wet" in politics is SCARY.

If anyone wants to make John McCain's divorce and remarriage a "litmus test" for voting, that is their right.

If anyone wants to make Barak Obama's clear distain for ANY protections for unborn (or even some born) children a "litmus test," that is their right.

People can vote for whomever they want and do NOT have to "justify" their vote to anyone.

Sadly, most WILL vote emotionally simply because "if it feels good, do it." Few will look at what's right or wrong in a candidate AS QUALIFICATIONS for the office or as to their commitment to the Constitution OF the United States, rather than the changes to that Constitution that THEY want to impose upon the entire nation.

Barak Obama, in MY opinion, is the Wrong Person at the Wrong Time, period. That leaves only one other choice, because that's the way our political system works.


Quote
I also love it when cable news interviewers take this Corsi person seriously. It's so cute. I see it and go, "Aaaaaaaaw." I just want to tousle their hair and pinch their cheeks. His, too. I say, "Look how they play at being grownups!"


"Look how they play at being grownups!"

Funny, I say the very same thing about MoveOn.org, the New York Times, ABC, NBC, CBS, MSNBC, etc., etc., etc.

They have been playing at being grownups and a whole lot of people "on the left" have been taking them seriously. Agenda? Yes, very clearly there, en masse, just like the 40 page "tome" protesting the book to again try to "hide" truth about who IS this person Barak Obama?


Quote
I try not to think of the consequences.

Sadly, that is the opinion of a lot of voters too.

I do think about the consequences because a CHOICE must be made.

To those who "Will not Vote" for either candidate, I would simply say that I understand their evaluation of what "they would like if they were to pick the candidate," but regardless of "likes and dislikes," ONE of THESE TWO candidates WILL be the next President. "Conflict Avoidance" seldom helps, let alone solves, problems.


But if one cannot bring themselves to vote for one of these two, PLEASE consider carefully and vote for members of Congress who WILL have the power to write the laws, set the taxes, secure our energy independence, protect the rights of all citizens (born and unborn, not illegal), maintain freedom of choice in healthcare, and defend the hard-fought liberties FROM "big government" that our Founding Fathers desperately wanted for our nation that they were willing to "put it all on the line" to secure for us who would come LONG after they were "footnotes" in history.


Joined: Apr 2002
Posts: 3,474
C
Member
Offline
Member
C
Joined: Apr 2002
Posts: 3,474
Obama scares me. He has the mesmerizing qualities of Hitler. With a Democratic Congress, what would he do? That's why I'm voting for McCain, unrepentent adulterer and all. At least the country will remain free.
Cherished

Joined: Apr 2005
Posts: 4,458
T
Member
Offline
Member
T
Joined: Apr 2005
Posts: 4,458
I have 4 adult children. One of them, goodness knows how, has grown up to be a pompous liberal dweeb. Bear in mind that I love this young man intensely and without conditions. I'm very proud of him for his scholastic achievements and for being such an exceptional student at the college where he got his B.S. that when he obtained his Masters, they hired him to come back and teach biology for them without even bringing him in for an interview. They just got the required signatures on his hiring sheet on the basis of his undergraduate performance. I think he's a phenomenal young man.

But it is impossible to have a debate of certain ideas with him, for much the same reason that it's impossible to have a debate of ideas with many of the professed liberals on this site. My discussions with my son, back before I gave them up as counterproductive and a waste of the limited time we could spend together, were somewhat different because I'm his mother and we do love each other...but those restraints do NOT apply on this site. Still the same general idea, though. In most cases, try facts, get sarcasm. Try more facts, get heated emotions. Present reasoned objections, and the response is mockery, ad hominem attacks, insults (often juvenile), excuses that nobody except a child could seriously expect to be accepted as valid, rationalizations, irrelevancies, and so on.

Re-read these discussions--and there are several threads here that do this--with that template in mind, and I think you will find that the conservative posts are more often about ideas, while the liberal posts are about feelings, often expressed with sarcastic disdain for their political opposites. Which isn't to say that conservatives can't be sarcastic. If it weren't for the mods, my own posts would've been WAY snarkier than they were. But I'm talking about the discussion as a whole, and the difference in approach I feel is displayed by the two sides. And the liberals appear to have the same self-image that my son displays via the bumper sticker on his car. It's a definition of a liberal, which includes the word "tolerant". To which revelation his sister and I responded with a good (if surreptitious) laugh, while I whispered, "HA!" since he's extremely INTOLERANT and dismissive of opposing viewpoints about his own pet beliefs, while considering others who disagree with him to be "intolerant".

So there's my opinion. This is America. I can have one if I want. And not only does it not have to agree with yours in order to make me a good person, disagreeing with you doesn't make me bad either.

Joined: Apr 2002
Posts: 3,474
C
Member
Offline
Member
C
Joined: Apr 2002
Posts: 3,474
Well, reading your post brought to mind a bumper sticker of someone who attends our church. It read Hillary Voldemort as the ticket, as if Hillary had selected Voldemort as her running mate. Anyone who has read Harry Potter knows that the bumper sticker was from someone who is NOT a Hillary supporter! Apparently, some people had thought she was a Hillary supporter, but she isn't.

The Republican Party has at the top of its ticket someone who is in an affair marriage. That one fact reveals a lot about the man. I'm still voting for him because his opponent is very liberal. We have two choices, and I'd prefer him.

My children are still young -- the oldest is 14 -- and I'm working on teaching them the value of work, the value of marriage, and the value of human life. I've talked to the oldest about what happened when the entire family went in to see my level 2 ultrasound of the baby, since I was 42 when our last one was born and the doctor wanted the ultrasound. After 20 minutes of the nurse looking at the baby, including one hand raised so you could clearly see all five digits of that hand, the nurse left and the doctor came in and said there was still a 1% chance of genetic deformity because of my age so did I want an abortion. The child was 19 weeks gestation, my husband and other three chidren were there, and I was struck by the callousness of her question. There's a lot of emotion for me in the vote for president, but I'm with the people who are selling John McCain noseplugs. I'm holding my nose to vote for him.

Cherished

Last edited by Cherished; 08/16/08 12:26 PM.
Joined: Sep 2003
Posts: 27,069
B
Member
Offline
Member
B
Joined: Sep 2003
Posts: 27,069
Probably just me, but I will never vote for an unrepentent adulterer. And I won't vote for a pro-abortionist.

So I guess I won't vote for president. Won't be the first time.


Joined: Sep 2003
Posts: 5,736
E
Member
Offline
Member
E
Joined: Sep 2003
Posts: 5,736
Originally Posted by believer
Probably just me, but I will never vote for an unrepentent adulterer. And I won't vote for a pro-abortionist.

So I guess I won't vote for president. Won't be the first time.

I don't know anything about the libertarian candidate.

Frankly, I think I'm more libertarian that republican anymore.

Or maybe the republican party isn't what it used to be.

Maybe I'll change my name to "None ofthe Above" and run for President. Seek to have my name last on the ballot, and see how I do.

Joined: Oct 2000
Posts: 35,996
P
Member
Offline
Member
P
Joined: Oct 2000
Posts: 35,996
Originally Posted by Enlightened_Ex
Originally Posted by believer
Probably just me, but I will never vote for an unrepentent adulterer. And I won't vote for a pro-abortionist.

So I guess I won't vote for president. Won't be the first time.

I don't know anything about the libertarian candidate.

Frankly, I think I'm more libertarian that republican anymore.

Or maybe the republican party isn't what it used to be.

Maybe I'll change my name to "None ofthe Above" and run for President. Seek to have my name last on the ballot, and see how I do.

You'd win by a landslide! hurray

Page 3 of 20 1 2 3 4 5 19 20

Link Copied to Clipboard
Forum Search
Who's Online Now
0 members (), 597 guests, and 58 robots.
Key: Admin, Global Mod, Mod
Newest Members
Bibbyryan860, Ian T, SadNewYorker, Jay Handlooms, GrenHeil
71,838 Registered Users
Building Marriages That Last A Lifetime
Copyright © 1995-2019, Marriage Builders®. All Rights Reserved.
Site Navigation
Powered by UBB.threads™ PHP Forum Software 7.7.5