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#2112575 08/19/08 03:02 PM
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Does anyone know anything about the Blackberry? My WH has one and checks all his messages from it and they don't show up in his email now. Is there a way to check messages from the phone from here or online some how? I don't know how the phone works. It's got a lot of features. If anyone here has one and had any advice on how I can get into his stuff please let me know.


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I have one...

If your H checks his email on his phone, he can select to delete them on his phone and email account simultaneously...that's why you don't see them anymore.

If you have access to his phone, look for an icon that when you scroll over says something about messages (it might be a mailbox icon). Select that.

If it is empty...he may have deleted everything. You might still be able to see it. Push the "menu" button (it's the one that has seven dots on it) then scroll through until you see it says "View folder" and select that.

Then select the email folder. Or the SMS folder for texts.

I don't know if it catches everything (there may be a way to delete things completely) but I've seen stuff that I'm sure MY H didn't intend for my eyes.

Good luck. BTW...do you have a keylogger on his computer? That works well for emails going out.

Mogi


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Originally Posted by MogiSola
I have one...

If your H checks his email on his phone, he can select to delete them on his phone and email account simultaneously...that's why you don't see them anymore.

If you have access to his phone, look for an icon that when you scroll over says something about messages (it might be a mailbox icon). Select that.

If it is empty...he may have deleted everything. You might still be able to see it. Push the "menu" button (it's the one that has seven dots on it) then scroll through until you see it says "View folder" and select that.

Then select the email folder. Or the SMS folder for texts.

I don't know if it catches everything (there may be a way to delete things completely) but I've seen stuff that I'm sure MY H didn't intend for my eyes.

Good luck. BTW...do you have a keylogger on his computer? That works well for emails going out.

Mogi

What exactly does a key logger do?

I he checks mail from his phone and not so much the computer anymore then the keyloger won't work anyway right?


Married: 15yrs
Me:38
WH:40
2 kids
D-day Sept 06 and again 7/23/08
Currently in counseling

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