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If there are any FWS's who would be willing to check out GOTS1207's thread in recovery, she is pretty foggy. She is looking for support on trying to start NC-

BUT (it's a pretty big BUT)

She doesn't want to tell her H about her A. She thinks she can bury it and recover... :RollieEyes:

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johnstwin-

"I may not know what the future holds, but I know who holds my future." -Martin Luther

Remarried my FXH 25 years to the day of our first M. God is so good-and sometimes so unexpected!

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Therein is the rub - she's screwed unless she tells him and OM'sW. She can't recover and is a waste of time talking with her if she won't take the first steps.


Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
D-Day August 2005
Married 11/1982 3 Sons 27,25,23
Empty Nesters.
Fully Recovered.
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The fog is strong with this one!!!


Me 34
WW 30
Abandoned Feb 17th 08, D-Day Aprl 27th 08.
Returned home Jul 7th, OC born 12/30/08
The FOG is clear, and we are in recovery.

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