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What to do about being rejected for internet porn
#2219549 02/24/09 12:43 PM
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Husband and I have been married two years have a one year old. This started when I was pregnant. Won't touch me but has been caught jkoff w/porn on internet and in bathroom after watching a movie w some actress, not even sexy movie... He won't touch me. I am 5'8 120lbs, lost preg weight fast. Am so unsatisfied and frustrated w/ sex life. What did I do to deserve this? He doesn't want me but wants imaginary women on computer? HE says it's not me it's him. I have tried all kinds of things to get him to want me. We are in counseling. I am so angry at him now I don't know what to do and now I don't want him anymore. I feel like my poor daughter is going to end up like me, in a broken home. Help!

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Re: What to do about being rejected for internet porn
wamykid #2219567 02/24/09 01:02 PM
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Originally Posted by wamykid
HE says it's not me it's him.

He's right. He has a problem, and no matter what you do to make him want you, it doesn't change the fact that he has a problem.

It's good that your in counseling. Does he discuss this issue in counseling? It should be discussed with a therapist (maybe even his own therapist). He needs help, and he has to be willing to get it.

I understand your frustration, anger, confusion, etc. Whatever you do, don't blame yourself. Ask him if he's willing to get help.

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