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I have posted my story before in several threads. Married five years, no children, xWH started an affair with MOW, xWH moved out and eventually filed for divorce and moved in with MOW. I have had almost no contact with him for one year.

This weekend I found out that MOW and OWH are in the process of divorcing. I know that many people here won't like this but OWH has met another woman and she has moved in with him in the house he used to share with his wife. Apparently their relationship started very recently, keep in mind that MOW and my xWH moved in with each other in November 08.

MOW basically abandoned her family to live on her own and sh*g my xWH. Now her BH lives in their very nice house with a beautiful woman who is younger than MOW. A blonde hottie (as some would say) who is a social worker and also teaches. I know I should not care but I snooped around this weekend. I have not done that for a long time. I found MOW, OWH and the new woman on facebook.

MOW looked like an old bag. She had a terrible red hair color and a dress my grandma would have made a rug from with fluffy love handles here and there. I was not sure if it was a serious photo or if she was going to a fancy dress party. The new woman is at least five years younger but looks 15 years younger. She had a nice haircut, nice teeth, and nice skin and looked extremely healthy and friendly.

Compared to MOW I look like a model and OWH's new woman looks like an angel. I wonder how xWH and MOW feel, sitting in a stuffy apartment on the fifth floor while OWH lives in MOW's dream house with a dream girl? Oh, by the way, xWH was never interested in cleaning any part of the home and I always took care of all the practical work in the house. I guess that MOW is doing that now, lol!

I know all this is ranting, but honestly, I don't miss xWH. I don't want to see him, I don't want to talk to him, I don't want him anywhere near me. I just want him to hit rock bottom. I want to let go of that too, maybe it will happen eventually.

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Well even though it is wrong for OWH to have a new woman moved in...wow, what a hit from the karma bus.

I LOVE DRIVING IT rotflmao

I take such joy in making the unjust pay. stickout


One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger

I will not spend my life this way.

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