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have not been out here in years. Wife had an affair around five years ago (wow already) which almost destroyed my marriage. Something happened this weekend that brought up some old memories and I just want to see if I am overreacting or should be concerned.
Had a neighborhood party this weekend and there was a lot of drinking involved... long story short is I left earlier then her and in the morning she told me I wasnt going to be happy with her. I guess her and a neighbor guy were talking about some deep stuff about his childhood etc and then somehow they kissed innocently and then he asked for a real kiss. She told me she said NO but part of me has my doubts. I want to trust her and actually think she is telling the truth but some long absent feelings have come about today. Should I worry...Should I be happy she told me when she didnt have to
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Personally, I'd be inclined to think she is covering up the big issue by making it out to be a little one.
Is the guy married? Maybe you should have a talk with his wife?
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Some people never learn. Let a WW get dunk then leave her at a party.
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Should I be happy she told me when she didnt have to Where you see honesty, I see deflection. Find out from the "OM" what happened before he has a chance to square away a story with your WW.
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