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I know that I am not asking a question, but making a comment and I did not know where to post my comment.
I had a counseling session with Steve Harley yesterday. I want you all out there to know that he knew how I was feeling about all the things that I have been going through since my husbands affair started. He pinpointed my husbands personality to a "T" and explained how his personality style was used to get himself into this affair in the first place.
Steve definitely knows his stuff and I am so thankful that I had received counseling from a caring expert in his field. If anyone wants counseling, please talk to Steve!
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I had a great experience with him too. I wish I could afford a follow up right now but I can't. Perhaps next month.
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Steve has helped us more in one counseling session than we coule ever have hoped for with another MC or on our own. Hands down.
He's awesome.
Me,BW - 42; FWH-46 4 kids D-Day #s1 and 2~May 2006 D-Day #3~Feb.27, 2007 (we'd been in a FR) Plan B~ March 3 ~ April 6, 2007 In Recovery and things are improving every day. MB rocks. 
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MarriedForever,
Are you still on Plan B or has your husband ended his affair?
I would like to know from your experience having Steve as your counselor how you have kept going on?
Cindy
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Married Forever,
Are you out there?
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MF is not in Plan B as her H ended his affair some time ago. They are recovering. They also went to a MB weekend.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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I'm just looking for her to talk to me . . . .Thanks ML.
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Just saw this now, thanks Mel for answering.
Me,BW - 42; FWH-46 4 kids D-Day #s1 and 2~May 2006 D-Day #3~Feb.27, 2007 (we'd been in a FR) Plan B~ March 3 ~ April 6, 2007 In Recovery and things are improving every day. MB rocks.
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MarriedForever,
Are you still on Plan B or has your husband ended his affair?
I would like to know from your experience having Steve as your counselor how you have kept going on?
Cindy I'm not sure what this means...how I have kept going on???
Me,BW - 42; FWH-46 4 kids D-Day #s1 and 2~May 2006 D-Day #3~Feb.27, 2007 (we'd been in a FR) Plan B~ March 3 ~ April 6, 2007 In Recovery and things are improving every day. MB rocks.
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MarriedForever,
Sorry for not being clear.
I was wondering how Steve's advice to you helped you to hold on and see your marriage through to the end.
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MarriedForever,
Sorry for not being clear.
I was wondering how Steve's advice to you helped you to hold on and see your marriage through to the end.
Cindhy We didn't start counseling with SH until we got into real recovery...it was part of my PB criteria (MC, and I chose Steve). I get the feeling you are asking how did SH help me wait out PB...so I will stop here. If not and you mean even AFTER Plan B, I will expand.
Me,BW - 42; FWH-46 4 kids D-Day #s1 and 2~May 2006 D-Day #3~Feb.27, 2007 (we'd been in a FR) Plan B~ March 3 ~ April 6, 2007 In Recovery and things are improving every day. MB rocks.
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Yes, I was asking you what kinds of things did Steve tell you to do while you were in plan B. I am not asking for personal answers, just practical ones. Since I am in plan B it would be great to get some answers that would help me get through all of this.
Cindy
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