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The effects of the "FOG"
#2237228 03/30/09 01:30 PM
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Hiya,

I have read often here that we are not to take anything (negative) a WS says or does personally.

What are we to do with the seemingly positive stuff that is said or done?

A good number of these thing are contray to one another, are we to speak them back to the WS.

IE:
WS says "I am working hard a at this bad job for my own future"

But has said in the past 30 days

"You should keep working hard even though your job is hard, as our future depends on it"


Luvstill


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Re: The effects of the "FOG"
Luvstill #2237261 03/30/09 01:53 PM
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LS,

Can I make a recommendation. Don't start a new thread everytime you have a question. Keep all of it on one thread so that people can follow the discussions and see what you have been told and how things are going without having to find all of your posts.

God Bless,

JL

PS: To answer your question. You take EVERYTHING they say with a grain of salt. As for her encouragement of you to work hard for the marriage, she is in cake eating mode. She is afraid to divorce but doesn't want to work on things, so you get the job.

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Re: The effects of the "FOG"
Just Learning #2237265 03/30/09 01:56 PM
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Will do JL..... copied my post to Thread : " when Plan A gets hard"
Re: The effects of the "FOG"
Luvstill #2237275 03/30/09 02:11 PM
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LS,

Thanks, it will help everyone respond approriately to your questions.

JL

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