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KiwiJ #2250438 04/23/09 07:50 PM
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Originally Posted by KiwiJ
Are you talking to SMB, who is a BS? :crosseyedcrazy:

Yes. She was also a wayward. Perhaps you should re-read her thread : crazy


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Originally Posted by myfamilyilove
I notice that you've excluded yourself from the FW list skeptical



That's because I am incurably stupid. I keep thinking one day you'll have something worthwhile to say here. Silly me! :crosseyedcrazy:


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Jen, sorry I didn't mention you in my earlier post. I'm sure you understand my point and didn't get hung up on what names were and were not mentioned. I'm sure I missed several more.

You have a lot of wisdom you share here.


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Aphelion, this is a good story for the Karma bus postings. Fits the mode!


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alien replaces my husband "I'm not happy" -7/08
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hope3343 #2250871 04/24/09 12:34 PM
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IMO, you did him a favor by turning him away. Maybe hitting rock bottom will force him to come to reckons with his past.

One can hope.

You remind me of former neighbors. He's a jerk, plain and simple. Short, cocky, mean; I hated him from day one. Full of great advice to my H on how to take advantage of people, run their businesses into the ground, that kind of stuff. She seemed nice, didn't see her that much.

She ends up having an affair with some guy up north. H finds out about it, kicks her out of the house. Flies up to where OM is and beats the living daylights out of him. He's in the hospital for a good 2 months.

H comes by our house one day cos the realtor was showing his house (had to be out). He tells us about this. Says OM is getting out of the hospital in 2 days. And he has a plane ticket to go back up there so he can beat him up again and put him back in the hospital.

Told us like he was talking about the weather.

Oops! Not you personally! I meant the story reminded me of them.

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catperson #2250887 04/24/09 12:49 PM
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Originally Posted by cat
You remind me of former neighbors. He's a jerk, plain and simple. Short, cocky, mean



Cat.......I'm not sure that came out the way you meant it.


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I think it probably did...

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Originally Posted by chrisner
Originally Posted by cat
You remind me of former neighbors. He's a jerk, plain and simple. Short, cocky, mean



Cat.......I'm not sure that came out the way you meant it.

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blush

but probably true...

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