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So speaking of all of the issues with Facebook. I just got a friend request... It's a cross between  and  : You see, it's a woman I am acquainted with who is currently ending her first affairage to start her second affairage. She's also "very religious," and harped me for not keeping a kosher home, while begging to dip in the mikvah to wash away her adulterous sins (which that is Soooooo not what it was for) So she wants to be my friend? OY. She went to school with H, and he knows she is a loon, but I'm sure she'll be trying to befriend him, too... she's so gross...
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I had a friend request recently from guy I use to know. His status is married but writes his interest is finding women - the nerve huh.  What a loser - of course I "ignored" friend request. I'm only on Facebook to monitor my daughter's activity. It has been fun having had relatives from London and Italy find me. GG
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Can you make comments with a rejection? If so you could make an interesting reply.
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I had a friend request recently from guy I use to know. His status is married but writes his interest is finding women - the nerve huh. What a loser - of course I "ignored" friend request. I'm only on Facebook to monitor my daughter's activity. It has been fun having had relatives from London and Italy find me. GG I've had similar experiences (old friends finding me) and I'm on FB for the same reasons you are!
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You have no idea! I have fantasized about giving her the MB books and HIGHLIGHTING stuff, particularly about serial cheaters and repeated mistakes. Seriously, THE NERVE to dis me for my non kosher kitchen when she's shtupped around on her husbands every.single.time!
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WH and OW are proudly displayed on Facebook. And it makes me gag!!
I hate to see her friends comment "How cute you two are" or "Are you next to get married?"
Please...he's not even divorced.
And comments like this lets me know of the company she keeps. And those tramps are just as bad as she is.
What nerve!!!!
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Yeah I like FB until H's college f___buddy used it to spur his MLC.
H even showed me a coworkers page... she has pics of her H and his OW with captions like "This is what he left me for?!" "Can you believe he CHOSE *that* over me?!"
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So speaking of all of the issues with Facebook. I just got a friend request... It's a cross between and : You see, it's a woman I am acquainted with who is currently ending her first affairage to start her second affairage. She's also "very religious," and harped me for not keeping a kosher home, while begging to dip in the mikvah to wash away her adulterous sins (which that is Soooooo not what it was for) So she wants to be my friend? OY. She went to school with H, and he knows she is a loon, but I'm sure she'll be trying to befriend him, too... she's so gross... LOL, Lord I slept around.....but I ate right! Mash'lom'mer?
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So speaking of all of the issues with Facebook. I just got a friend request... It's a cross between and : You see, it's a woman I am acquainted with who is currently ending her first affairage to start her second affairage. She's also "very religious," and harped me for not keeping a kosher home, while begging to dip in the mikvah to wash away her adulterous sins (which that is Soooooo not what it was for) So she wants to be my friend? OY. She went to school with H, and he knows she is a loon, but I'm sure she'll be trying to befriend him, too... she's so gross... Guys - the way to keep this from happening is to go secret (other than not using FB). You CAN set FB so that people CAN'T find you. The only people I'm friends with are MY requests because no one can just search for me and send a request.
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WH and OW are proudly displayed on Facebook. And it makes me gag!!
I hate to see her friends comment "How cute you two are" or "Are you next to get married?"
Please...he's not even divorced.
And comments like this lets me know of the company she keeps. And those tramps are just as bad as she is.
What nerve!!!! I know!! MY WH's skank posted pictures that her FAMILY actually took of them at the family reunion!!!! You know, like engagment pics, one of him standing behind her, arms around her waist and one of them facing each other, looking lovingly into each other eyes. WTH?? I thought the same thing!! Ummmmmm, helllooo??? You all do remember that he is MARRIED, right?? And not to her!!!! The low point was she posted one as her profile pic! That came down pretty quick though. My DDs saw it & tore him up over it. So, she looked on myspace & cried to WH cause my profile song was "cheater cheater" "It was so mean of me! That song talks about her "rotting in hell" she had NEVER said anything bad about me!!! She was so hurt that I would "take it public like that" Ha Ha Ha
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WH and OW are proudly displayed on Facebook. And it makes me gag!!
I hate to see her friends comment "How cute you two are" or "Are you next to get married?"
Please...he's not even divorced.
And comments like this lets me know of the company she keeps. And those tramps are just as bad as she is.
What nerve!!!! I know!! MY WH's skank posted pictures that her FAMILY actually took of them at the family reunion!!!! You know, like engagment pics, one of him standing behind her, arms around her waist and one of them facing each other, looking lovingly into each other eyes. WTH?? I thought the same thing!! Ummmmmm, helllooo??? You all do remember that he is MARRIED, right?? And not to her!!!! The low point was she posted one as her profile pic! That came down pretty quick though. My DDs saw it & tore him up over it. So, she looked on myspace & cried to WH cause my profile song was "cheater cheater" "It was so mean of me! That song talks about her "rotting in hell" she had NEVER said anything bad about me!!! She was so hurt that I would "take it public like that" Ha Ha Ha The NERVE of you ! And RMX, what is "Mash'lom'mer"? My Hebrew is weak, at best, though my upcoming 11 days in Israel might help LOL
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>though my upcoming 11 days in Israel might help LOL
OMGosh!
How exciting!
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>though my upcoming 11 days in Israel might help LOL
OMGosh!
How exciting! Yep, I AM excited. H and I are going with a group, it was basically a gift we were given. Initially in his fog he didn't want to go, but I bargained through that, and now he's trying not to show excitement
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>now he's trying not to show excitement
Men! Sheesh!
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Yeah, I know  BTW Happy, I'd totally post those pic comments **nods emphatically** Might take her a day to notice and imagine what others would see LOL
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That's an idea....a group of MBers who post to other people's waywards or interlopers and tells them to have a reality check and outs them to the world....... sort of kidding - sort of serious
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LOL That would be too funny, wouldn't it?? She would flip out!!! She stalks my page, DDs page, sis page, SIL page. Cousin page. LOL
We could take turns leaving comments on OWs & WS pages. Talk about exposure!! LOL
He took me to "their" nasty dive bar one night. I didn't realize it until later. I wondered why on earth he wanted to go there!!!
She got POd!!! I guess it's all well & good when she's showing up at our favorite little grill for our margarita night. Or cruising my neighborhood hopin for a glimpse. She "didn't appreciate being humiliated in front of her friends & family!!" All I could think was "ummmm, like I DID???"
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Oh if she has an open page, I would SOOOOO do it HAHAHAHA. We BW's (BS's) gotta stick together!
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Just out of interest - would you feel ok about it if someone posted on your(any bs reading this that is recovering with their f/ws) ws fb page and totally outed them in the same way? ie to hurt them?
When I first read this I thought yeah, do this to that POSOM of mine because he is a serial cheater and I think everyone should be protected from him...
and then I thought, hang on a min, his wife may want to do the same for me and actually I'm not sure she knows me or how I'm recovering my M and I know my H wouldn't want it to happen on my fb page...
just me processing more of my stuff - hope you don't mind me doing it here
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And RMX, what is "Mash'lom'mer"? My Hebrew is weak, at best, though my upcoming 11 days in Israel might help LOL "Ma shlomech" would be the phonetic version of "how are you?" in Hebrew when asking a female. Guessing that's what RMX meant. AGG
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