I'm feeling very positive lately so I'd love to share!
My positive experiences in B: (in no particular order)
1. Peace in my life
2. Peace in my home
3. Working through my issues and understanding how I ended up living in such pain for so long.
3. Learning to have boundaries.
4. Learning where I needed to improve as a parent and fixing it.
5. Being emotionally present for my DD and falling madly in love with her!
6. Learning who I am and liking me.
7. Learning who I am in Christ.
8. Creating a relationship with Christ like I've never had before.
9. Realizing that I couldn't really SEE people, family and friends because of MY pain.
10. Learning to LOVE!
11. Learning to cherish my character and integrity and protect them for life!
12. Knowing for sure that I can trust Christ with anything.
13. Finding real joy.
14. Discovering the difference between happiness and joy.
15. Wake up smiling!
16. Letting go of the burden of trying to change my WH.
17. Letting go of the desire to know what he is doing and with who.
18. Not fearing the future as a single mom.
19. Not fearing the future.
20. Working on letting go of anger and resentment (a huge work in process)
21. Beginning to think about working on forgiveness (it's only a thought as this point :-)
22. Looking forward to whatever the good Lord has in store for me!
23. Not worrying so much.
24. Understand that there are some REALLY broken people in this world and learning that I cannot change them.
25. Learning to accept the fact that some people will choose to remain broken.
26. Learning to accept the fact the the OW (2?) are not worth my time despising them. I outshine them! They've never had one over on me!
27. Accepting the Word of God as the basis of my conduct.
28. Learning to love life!