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I am in B and doing okay.
Back in plan A I exposed a tsunami as par for the course.
The only person I didn't expose to was OW's mom who I believed to be dead BUT alas, someone I know just told me OW's mom is alive in East Asia and they know her info (addy, email addy, phone number).
My conundrum.....sit on the info and not expose to mommy or get involved with the drama and irritating the plan B status quo.
Comments.
I like having the info but am leaning towards sitting on it and not exposing and stirring up the pot.
Ugh.
Last edited by reading; 02/12/10 02:56 PM.
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How long have you been in Plan B and how long ago did you expose?
Me,BW - 42; FWH-46 4 kids D-Day #s1 and 2~May 2006 D-Day #3~Feb.27, 2007 (we'd been in a FR) Plan B~ March 3 ~ April 6, 2007 In Recovery and things are improving every day. MB rocks. 
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MF,
Plan B since Sept/Oct
I would send a nice letter to OW's mom regardless and let her know that WH has abandoned his family for her daughter... GAG!
Your in plan B so you should never know about any of the fallout anyways!
Recovery began 10/07;
Meeting my wife's EN's is my "thank you" that refuses to be silenced.
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MF,
Plan B since Sept/Oct
I would send a nice letter to OW's mom regardless and let her know that WH has abandoned his family for her daughter... GAG!
Your in plan B so you should never know about any of the fallout anyways! Thanks t... reading, I agree with tst...expose to her mom and tell her exactly what tst said. Most moms will not be happy about their daughter being an OW(hore).
Me,BW - 42; FWH-46 4 kids D-Day #s1 and 2~May 2006 D-Day #3~Feb.27, 2007 (we'd been in a FR) Plan B~ March 3 ~ April 6, 2007 In Recovery and things are improving every day. MB rocks.
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