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He has the facts he needs to know to mnake a desicion me and my firends are ok now it will never happen again, and we are starting therapy next week. Therapy can't help someone who lies. You are not a "friend" to those people, you are the OW. An unrepentant liar, an unrepentant OW. The enemy. Pretending to be the OMW's "friend" is cruel and sadistic. What do you want here, lokil? This is not a board that will support lying and cheating and cruelty. So what do you want? Have you always been mean and cruel?
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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At htis point im done with confesing i told him i was unfaithful, that is enopugh for him to know if he wants to leave me or not, its his choice.
Unrepeantant...seriously? You are certainly not willing to be accountable...that is for sure. If you told him WHOM he would be able to hold you accountable...you won't tell him so that you can keep the door open for contact with the other person. As it is he has to imagine that it could be anyone from the milkman...to the postman...to the vet...to the bagger at the grocery store. Too bad you don't care enough about your husband to let him know who his enemy is. It is truly sad that you don't have his back. I bet it was a person that you KNOW is a deal breaker for your husband. committed
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hmm what am i doing here, trying to save my marriage, understanding more about infidelity, the fact that this happened made me think more of our marriage at the end of the day it was not that great, I believe infidelity was not the original problem more like symptom of a diseased marriage, I hope we can have a better marriage afther this.
Im not mean or cruel, and yes I do feel reaslly bad about waht I did to my ftiend but hurting her farther is not my choice it's on her Hs hand to tell or not.
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Yep, and will remain so as long as she continues to lie...I am so angry FOR her BH and friend...  If I were that friend, when I did find out, lolkil would be, at the very least, BALD... Mrs. W
FWW ~ 47 ~ MeFBH ~ 50 ~ MrWonderingDD ~ 17 Dday ~ 2005 ~ Recovered
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The purpose of this forum is marriage building. We are going to get back to that purpose.
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