How long until the sick feeling passes when you think of your WH having sex with POSOW? I am usually ok not focusing on it, but the last couple days have been really bad and I'm so angry and feel physically ill when I think of it. And I'm having trouble with wanting to contact OW and tell her what I think of her.

Is there a way to help with this feeling? What can I do to hold off this rage and disgust?


Me: BW, 27
Him: WH, 29
DD 4
DS 1
Married 07/25/09
A began end of 08/2009 (possibly sooner)
D-Day: 3/31/10
2nd D-Day: 4/9/2010
3rd D-Day: 4/21/10

Plan B (shortlived as it was): 18/05/10
WH decides to work on marriage: 20/05/10
False Recovery, Back to Plan B: 13/08/10

Filed for D Feb 2011, D April 2012

Looking forward to the sunshine and rainbows life should hold for us all!