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I too miss her. I am CERTAIN that if there were anything that we should NEED to know, we would. I just want to let her know, through the grapevine, that I am thinking of her and sending all of the positive thoughts necessary. We all just need to channel some Mel thoughts and pass on the knowledge to others.  There are actually a lot of vets who seem to be MIA lately. We have GIANT shoes to fill when they aren't around.
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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Mel is as scarce as grass 'round a hog trough...and I miss her so much I feel lower than a gopher hole....We miss your gun tooting texan wit...y'all come back now, ya hear? ![[Linked Image from millan.net]](http://www.millan.net/minimations/smileys/guntootsmiley.gif)
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BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy. 
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Well, since she's not here right now, maybe we can start some good gossip! Hmmm...about that wedding, I heard a rumor that she went, she saw, and she conquered, and nobody even saw her fire a shot!  
"Your actions are so loud that I can't hear a word you're saying!"
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Hey guys, I emailed Mel to make sure everything was OK... Everything is fine but unfortunately (for us) she is moving on, however gives everyone her best.
Mel, we will miss you!! and I want to thank you for the millionth time for the help & support you gave to my sister when she really really needed it. Big hugs!
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Hey guys, I emailed Mel to make sure everything was OK... Everything is fine but unfortunately (for us) she is moving on, however gives everyone her best. That's really disappointing, but I appreciate her need to move on. I suspect Melody was instrumental in saving a lot of marriages. Dang, starting the day off on a bummer note... 
D-Day 2-10-2009
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You've got to be kidding me; I don't even know how to follow this board anymore without MelodyLane on my watchlist.
We will miss you Melody. You know you were incredibly valuable here.
If you are serious about saving your marriage, you can't get it all on this forum. You've got to listen to the Marriage Builders Radio show, every day. Install the app! Married to my radiant trophy wife, Prisca, 19 years. Father of 8. Attended Marriage Builders weekend in May 2010 If your wife is not on board with MB, some of my posts to other men might help you.
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If you are serious about saving your marriage, you can't get it all on this forum. You've got to listen to the Marriage Builders Radio show, every day. Install the app! Married to my radiant trophy wife, Prisca, 19 years. Father of 8. Attended Marriage Builders weekend in May 2010 If your wife is not on board with MB, some of my posts to other men might help you.
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Oops, I mighta just had a slight angry outburst, there.
If you are serious about saving your marriage, you can't get it all on this forum. You've got to listen to the Marriage Builders Radio show, every day. Install the app! Married to my radiant trophy wife, Prisca, 19 years. Father of 8. Attended Marriage Builders weekend in May 2010 If your wife is not on board with MB, some of my posts to other men might help you.
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BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy.
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![[Linked Image from myemoticons.com]](http://www.myemoticons.com/images/super-smileys/love/thank-you.gif) for taking so much of your time out to help all of us.....
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![[Linked Image from myemoticons.com]](http://www.myemoticons.com/images/emotions/sad/crying-1.gif) Stop in once in a while to tell us how you are doin...you will be sorely missed, but I completely understand...Good luck in everything that life has to offer...sending prayers and good wishes your way, Mel.....
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As Mel always said, "We have no control over those who decide to stay or go..."
Laters.
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mel,
I just wanted to thank you for keeping me alive when I couldn't myself, this site and the wonderful people like you, 2x4's and all have helped me save my marriage, I will be forever grateful..........
jessi
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Married 25 years, live together for 2, dated 2 years before that.....
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Grateful for finding Marriage Builders
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Thanks for worrying about me, friends! I am taking a little break and will probably be back soon. Miss you all!
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Thanks for worrying about me, friends! I am taking a little break and will probably be back soon. Miss you all! Hooray! Probably be back soon is much better news. Prisca and I were convinced you and your husband were off on a very nice two week vacation. If you weren't, maybe you should go have one.
If you are serious about saving your marriage, you can't get it all on this forum. You've got to listen to the Marriage Builders Radio show, every day. Install the app! Married to my radiant trophy wife, Prisca, 19 years. Father of 8. Attended Marriage Builders weekend in May 2010 If your wife is not on board with MB, some of my posts to other men might help you.
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Thanks for worrying about me, friends! I am taking a little break and will probably be back soon. Miss you all! Well well well, missy. We've been wondering if everything was okay. My parents had an expression they used to say to me when I got home after curfew: "Where have you been!? We thought you were dead in a ditch!" (why a ditch in particular and not just dead in general, I don't know. ) Good to know you'll be around!
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Thanks friend! 
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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See, she is BATMAN. Put out the signal, and she comes.  Glad that you are okay. These boards really haven't been the same without you. I knew that if I really needed you, I could email.  I was happy not to need to. Take care of yourself.
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