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I heard some really distressing news today. Someone told me that the X-POSOW told them that she was mad at my DH because he dropped her on D-Day with a phone call and she hasn't heard from him since. Why in the world would she be mad? She knew he was M from day one.
This was a really big trigger for me. I am proud that I didn't take it out on my DH but I can't believe how selfish these ppl are. Please help me understand?
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I heard some really distressing news today. Someone told me that the X-POSOW told them that she was mad at my DH because he dropped her on D-Day with a phone call and she hasn't heard from him since. Why in the world would she be mad? She knew he was M from day one.
This was a really big trigger for me. I am proud that I didn't take it out on my DH but I can't believe how selfish these ppl are. Please help me understand? They are selfish, self-absorbed, entitled and wayward. They have no empathy for anyone but themselves. Their lives are gray, shallow and lack meaning. They have a hole in their soul that cannot be filled, and they themselves put it there. We should pity the poor bovines.
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I heard some really distressing news today. Someone told me that the X-POSOW told them that she was mad at my DH because he dropped her on D-Day with a phone call and she hasn't heard from him since. Why in the world would she be mad? She knew he was M from day one.
This was a really big trigger for me. I am proud that I didn't take it out on my DH but I can't believe how selfish these ppl are. Please help me understand? Sucks when they lose something good, that wasn't theirs to begin with.
"An expert is a person who has made all the mistakes that can be made in a very narrow field." - Niels Bohr
"Smart people believe weird things because they are skilled at defending beliefs they arrived at for non-smart reasons." - Michael Shermer
"Fair speech may hide a foul heart." - Samwise Gamgee LOTR
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They got cut off from their drug. Of course they're mad.
A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
~ English proverb Neak's Story
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Nothing that an unrepentant lowlife OP does/says surprises me anymore.
I talked to one of my H's old coworkers that I was friendly with several months after d-day...the things that she relayed to me that OW had told the workplace regarding the EA that made her look like the victim made me sooooooo mad!
I don't talk to her anymore and my H doesn't keep in touch with anyone who still works there. They are all blocked on FB. Don't let anyone tell you anything about OW anymore ~ if necessary, cut these folks out of your life. It will ALL trigger you and it's not healthy...
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Nothing that an unrepentant lowlife OP does/says surprises me anymore.
I talked to one of my H's old coworkers that I was friendly with several months after d-day...the things that she relayed to me that OW had told the workplace regarding the EA that made her look like the victim made me sooooooo mad!
I don't talk to her anymore and my H doesn't keep in touch with anyone who still works there. They are all blocked on FB. Don't let anyone tell you anything about OW anymore ~ if necessary, cut these folks out of your life. It will ALL trigger you and it's not healthy...
((cobolgirl)) The XOW told ppl the same thing. It made me mad also. You are right, I do need to stop talking to all of those pp.
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