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Hey fellas, good to hear from you. I'm coming up on one year since my first post here, doesn't seem like that long ago but a lifetime ago as well. We're doing very well, thanks for asking. We spent a week at the beach and it was a nice break. We got back last Sunday and found out we're having kid #3 around March so that's the big news around here. The "former" WW applies, all's quiet on the western front though I still check up on things. Nothing from OM or his wife which is fine by me. Hopefully they worked things out (or she cleaned his butt out in the divorce  ) Now if the temp outside would just drop below 100-degrees... Take care guys.
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We got back last Sunday and found out we're having kid #3 around March so that's the big news around here.  That's great news, North! I'm so glad to hear things are going well for you!
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Thanks, mb. It's kind of surreal sometimes.
"What a long, strange trip it's been."
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Glad to hear the good news! Now, if I can get your (F)WW to call my WW and let her know how much better it is to stay together than break up, I'd have it made!
Me: BH (47)
Her: WW (46)
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Exposure 2-23-2011
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NW - CONGRATS and all the best to you and your FWW! Oh, and once your FWW finishes that call to TimB's WW - can she call mine please? Maybe a conference call would be easier - kill two birds with one tone kind of thing.
Thanks in advance.
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WW - 41
D-day 1 - (PA) 01/2011
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Started Plan B - 7/11
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Make that three! and forget the 2X4's, bring a 4x4! NW - CONGRATS and all the best to you and your FWW! Oh, and once your FWW finishes that call to TimB's WW - can she call mine please? Maybe a conference call would be easier - kill two birds with one tone kind of thing.
Thanks in advance.
Me = BH
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Remember, North; real men shoot boy bullets, but beautiful people have more girls.
"An expert is a person who has made all the mistakes that can be made in a very narrow field." - Niels Bohr
"Smart people believe weird things because they are skilled at defending beliefs they arrived at for non-smart reasons." - Michael Shermer
"Fair speech may hide a foul heart." - Samwise Gamgee LOTR
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I'm happy to hear the good news, NW!
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- on ALL fronts! Baby, FWW, recovery, marriage... You sound like you're in a pretty good place right now, NW. Very nice indeed.
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bit of good news for a change, keep working at being happy ........
congrats on the baby news. so precious.......
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Married 25 years, live together for 2, dated 2 years before that.....
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Congratulations, NW!
If it is a boy, I would suggest naming him Nicholas George.
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Make that three! and forget the 2X4's, bring a 4x4! NW - CONGRATS and all the best to you and your FWW! Oh, and once your FWW finishes that call to TimB's WW - can she call mine please? Maybe a conference call would be easier - kill two birds with one tone kind of thing.
Thanks in advance. LnT, TB & Andy- Man, I wish it was that easy because I'd sure enough do it for y'all.
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Remember, North; real men shoot boy bullets, but beautiful people have more girls. Well, by that rationale and with one son and one daughter already, I must be a beautiful real man. Hmmm.
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Congratulations, NW!
If it is a boy, I would suggest naming him Nicholas George. Thanks Vanilla, wulfpack and Jessi for the kind words. And NG, do you think the world would really be ready for another NG, even if only in namesake?
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Congrats North, thats awesome.
Makes me wonder how many new girls out there are named "Melody" just for our resident firecracker.
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Makes me wonder how many new girls out there are
named "Melody" just for our resident firecracker.
Oh, God! I might never sleep again!
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Remember, North; real men shoot boy bullets, but beautiful people have more girls. Well, by that rationale and with one son and one daughter already, I must be a beautiful real man. Hmmm. Or a real beautiful man? 
"An expert is a person who has made all the mistakes that can be made in a very narrow field." - Niels Bohr
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Makes me wonder how many new girls out there are
named "Melody" just for our resident firecracker.
Oh, God! I might never sleep again! ![[Linked Image from 1.bp.blogspot.com]](http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_LbfH6nnGyvU/RwsdzM5jrWI/AAAAAAAAAFM/O48k8E37BcQ/s400/dankert-sleepless.jpg) There can never be too many Melody(s) in this world. Bwahahahaha....
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“In a sense now, I am homeless. For the home, the place of refuge, solitude, love-where my husband lived-no longer exists.” Joyce Carolyn Oates, A Widow's Story
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Just a random question if you guys don't mind... During the worst of the affair, my wife would get these bad migraines that would last for three or four days at a time. I'm convinced they many were stress-induced because, well, having an affair and having to lie about it is probably stressful. The other weekend she got a bad headache and it immediately triggered me. Eblaster and phone are still clear, things are going really great between us and I really don't suspect any contact. But, still, it got me down. So she asked if anything was up and I just said I was tired--I didn't want to bring up the a-hole and the trigger because, in a weird way, it seems like it keeps him alive or something. So was that an utter failure at O&H or excusable? Now, as I'm typing this out, I'm thinking I should just tell her about the trigger and be done with it. But it seems like it's a bit late to be bringing up this a-hole as I sure hate reminding her of him. Maybe I should buy him some airline tickets to Iran so he can go hiking...yeah, that'd make me feel better!  So what do y'all think? Keep it to myself and get over it or keep the mudder-effer's memory alive by mentioning him?
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