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MelodyLane - I get the feeling from your post I am not welcomed on this site. I am suffering from brain dysfunction and am on disability because of my tumor and have short and long-term memory problems.
I read the book but cannot retain information. I read it before my surgery. I can not read now because of a tracking disorder with my eyes. I have not been on this site since 2008 and had my tumor removed in 2011.
Your response was unkind. I hope you are satisfied with my response and the fact that I will not post here because I am obviously not welcomed by you and this is enough for me to leave. In the future, I'd be a bit more courteous in my responses.
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Unwelcomed.
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Zohrie, you have been here for several years but have never used Marriage Builders. Why is that?
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Forget it. I hope you never have a brain tumor or a nervous breakdown.
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If I am not welcomed on this site, I will not write on it anymore. If my questions go unanswered, I will presume I am not welcomed here because of my disabilities and will disappear. I thought I could find help here. This is an odd response to a question about why someone who has had an account here for 3.5 years has not used the marriage builders programs. WOW. This is most likely going to cause some people NOT to respond, due to the fact that when we first respond, WE ASK QUESTIONS, and there is a lot of pressure on people to act just so, or else be accused of discrimination against someone. AGAIN WOW. Why did you come to MB in Dec 2007? Was there adultery in your marriage prior to this? Do YOU believe that you H is having an A? Have you read ALL of the info on here?
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING  Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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I read the above comment and realize that this forum is "clicky" and unfriendly. I am taken back as I thought everyone here were Christians and would understand my reason for not retaining Dr. Harley's book. I have not used MB since 2009 because I was being medicated and going through psychiatric intervention before they found my peach sized brain tumor. I am besides myself because of your responses and very badly hurt. I thought this was a safe place, but I was wrong.
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Your choice, but I will not allow you to call us "clicky" and unfriendly without telling you that you are most certainly WRONG about that.
What we are here is helpful, questioning and understanding. I can only speak for myself when I say that I will not help someone who will not help themselves. Why would I do that? Why would I spend time helping someone understand MB principles, when they show no willingness to put them into practice? The questions were valid. I am sorry that you feel the way that you do, but it had nothing to do with the questions that were posed to you on this thread(which you didn't answer anyways).
BTW, were either you or your H married to other people when you "got together"?
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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Is there a full moon out tonight? 
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Dunno, but there sure are some odd howling noises this past week...
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