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I came across this while reading about Amy's funeral today
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbi...r-Amy-suffer-father-Mitch-Winehouse.html

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This is why all of us who are having a wayward leave us for the other woman have to instill in our children morality.

I look at my four kids and get fearful on how to protect them. Then I raise my hands and pray. I pray for our future. I pray I always stand up for what is right, even if that means losing those we most love.

The greatest lesson I am learning from this is to put my wayward in GOD's hands. Granted my anger is so difficult today. I am trying to let go of my wayward and allow GOD to do his work.

I am going to read Queenies thread again today!!!

Adultery is paid for by our children and our children's children.

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He's an asssss!

Did you see where he said, "at least he knows she was happy when she died"

What an idiot! She was wasted, stoned and utterly consumed by her addiction......

Happy???? Really???? Only something a wayward could think to say!

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Recovery began 10/07;

Meeting my wife's EN's is my "thank you" that refuses to be silenced.
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Ugh.... it seems like there are way more successful affairages than the 3%... I feel like I keep seeing them.... frown


Married 1/2000.
D-Day 3/7/11. WH moved in with OW and they married in 2013.
Single mom of 4.

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Oh but Mehr, there are just a lot more affairs than you know of. And I wouldn't call an affairage a success, ever.


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DSx2: 10,12
DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09
Plan B Dec18/09
Personal R in works
Scotty's THING laugh
Newly Betrayed click here


Praying for walls and doors. Thanx MM

“Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.”
? Maya Angelou

PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION

THANK YOU
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I'm staying at my dad and witnessing first hand his 11 year affairage and let me tell you, it ain't peachy!

I'm trying to move out today, so bear with me, I'll get to the story, but the sure thing is that my mother, though by herself, got the better deal. So if way wards stay wayward, get the best you you can get! Get a life and live it fully, because you are the winner, even if it doesn't look like that right now! Heal yourself!

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DD1 6 yrs DD2 2 yr

A man who abandons his wife and children because of his infidelity is no price. I can do better then that, I deserve better then that.

The difficulties and struggles of today are but the price we must pay for the accomplishments and victories of tomorrow

Men must be honest with themselves before they can be honest with others. A man who is not honest with himself presents a hopeless case
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My grandmother was in a 30+ year affairage. They were both alcoholics, and were NEVER happy. They fought like crazy and one night, she even hit him in the head with a cast iron frying pan, and he fell down the stairs, she thought he was dead. My dad and his OM step-dad NEVER got along, and my dad actually punched him in the mouth and knocked his teeth out. Lemme tell you, although I know that they stayed together, there was never any happiness in it.


BW(Me)aka Scotty:37
DSx2: 10,12
DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09
Plan B Dec18/09
Personal R in works
Scotty's THING laugh
Newly Betrayed click here


Praying for walls and doors. Thanx MM

“Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.”
? Maya Angelou

PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION

THANK YOU

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