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I came home from work one day week before last to find my husband wearing a necklace, an earring and growing a weird biker looking mustache...and then this past week, after arriving home from work, he went ballistic yelling and cussing because I asked what something (that is usually kept in a cabinet) was doing sitting out on the counter top. He just really acted like a jerk and actually had me in tears and even said that if I didn't get away from him that he was going to pack up and leave. He will not talk to me when I ask him what is going on. So, I'm wondering if he's up to his old tricks??? What do you guys think?
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I came home from work one day week before last to find my husband wearing a necklace, an earring and growing a weird biker looking mustache...and then this past week, after arriving home from work, he went ballistic yelling and cussing because I asked what something (that is usually kept in a cabinet) was doing sitting out on the counter top. He just really acted like a jerk and actually had me in tears and even said that if I didn't get away from him that he was going to pack up and leave. He will not talk to me when I ask him what is going on. So, I'm wondering if he's up to his old tricks??? What do you guys think? You've been here long enough to know the answer, Dawn. Snoop.
BW
Married 1989
His PA 2003-2006
2 kids.
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Old tricks, do you mean H was a WH.
This is why there must always be transparencey, and a keylogger on the PC, and other means of info that will reveal an PA.
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You know the answer Still. Snoop like a blood hound and find out what is going on.
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING  Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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Yes, I was afraid of that... I have been checking the phone bills and nothing out of the ordinary.
TheRoad: Yes, it's a sad situation. Three years ago I had an A and then last year in July, we had D-day for his RA.
Things had gotten to a point of being pretty good--we went on an awesome vacation last Fall to the Mediterranean (Italy, Africa, Spain, France) and it seemed that all was going along well. Then, about 2 weeks ago, he just turned into the devil again...
I bend over backwards to meet his needs and he does nothing for me but, criticize me and treat me like I've got the plague or something... Everything is HIS as opposed to being ours and he is just totally someone that I don't even know anymore. I can't even decorate our home the way I want to--he has to control EVERYTHING... I just don't know anymore.
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