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Lol I sent a sad face saying I miss him.
I don't know if it's sarcastic or not. When he sent the 1st one I asked if he was mocking me and he said "what?no I'm trying to help "
It better not be sarcastic >.<
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Lol I sent a sad face saying I miss him.
I don't know if it's sarcastic or not. When he sent the 1st one I asked if he was mocking me and he said "what?no I'm trying to help "
It better not be sarcastic >.< Even if it is, it is a good sign. He is doing what you asked even if he thinks it is stupid. Make a game out of it, make him realize you guys can be fun and flirty wiht each other. dang fingers are faster than my brain. Always type something backwards.
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Go in the bathroom and take a picture of your cleavage and send it back to him!!  And here's me, trying to be all 'PG-rated' and stuff! Yeah, I guess cleavage would probably pack a better punch than a can of peas. 
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Lol
He has been asking for me to send naked pics but the thing is....I know he never asked for those before her. And him and her sent nasty naked pics. I mean I saw pics of her mastrubating.
I can see cleavage or a flirty pic...but nekkid nekkid is to much for me....and I knownhe likes it...but it makes me feel icky. I think bc it started w her
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He just sent me a photo of lowes "I'm getting ac filters" lol Go in the bathroom and take a picture of your cleavage and send it back to him!!  Yeah lol "Top that!"
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Ok cleavage sent. I said "and we miss you to" bleh. The things I do for marriage
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Lol
He has been asking for me to send naked pics but the thing is....I know he never asked for those before her. And him and her sent nasty naked pics. I mean I saw pics of her mastrubating.
I can see cleavage or a flirty pic...but nekkid nekkid is to much for me....and I knownhe likes it...but it makes me feel icky. I think bc it started w her Well than feel free to tell him that, and stick to what makes you feel comfortable Play it by ear, your doin great. Save the issue of why nekked pics make you uncomfortable for face to face I am sure he will agree, and that sexy displays should have been done with you in the first place
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Only send what u are comfortable with. Dr Harley talked about sexting between spouses and said it was ok is agreed to by both parties.
Naked texts would trigger you so stay away from something that would.
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confused, I don't do nekkid either. I just do suggestive shots and it DRIVES HIM CRAZY!
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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The OW is TRASH who can't get a man of her own. She can only get the crumbs off the tables of decent women like you and she has to send out degrading, disgusting porn shots to do it. Trashy, trashy, trashy... 
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Yea they are burned into my head. It's so weird bc she isn't anything like I'd picture him with. She is kinda trashy, doesn't dress nice, doesn't do her hair nice. A coworker of theirs told me she started dressing a little better when they where together and in the emails I read some where she was saying she only wore such and such heels or such and such skirts for him. She even said " well at first I couldn't walk 10 feet but now I'm up to 3 days a week". She's in her 30s...
She's not very girly, she appears to have little ambition...she's 33 and has nothing to show for it...it's just odd to me. I'm no super model but I'm pretty, keep a lovely home, I'm fun, im a good wife, a good mom, he says I'm good in bed, I dress nice always, I dont ever go out without hair and makeup...even if I'm home sick I shower and clean up as much as I can...I do well at work....it's weird.
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Just ask yourself what kind of woman has to send out porn shots of herself just to get a man to do her?? *puke*
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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The OW is TRASH who can't get a man of her own. She can only get the crumbs off the tables of decent women like you and she has to send out degrading, disgusting porn shots to do it. Trashy, trashy, trashy... Yeah and the porn shots feed the male ego" I want you and will do anything to get you" And they will degrade themselves also, in deparation. This is the challenge your H will have conquer , that he was selfish and playing with everybody's hearts, and that he was not thinking with the proper emotions being respected. He was thinking of himself at the moment, and not of his wife and children, and what he was called to when he got married Never mind what he helped build up in OW head, that will be her problem. She knew better also and she will have to learn to live without stealing from another woman She is nothing but an excuse for him to feel sorry for himself, but now you will have MB to help you guys with that
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They always affair down - sometimes way down. What kind of woman goes after married men, destroys their families?
Trashy Trashy Trashy ones!!!
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They ALWAYS affair down. They would never find anyone of you quality that would sleep with a married man. Do not compare yourself in that way.
Tough. We were typing at the same time
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It just makes me feel gross. Part of me doesn't even want him to see me naked or be im bed cause I'm just concerned hes comparing. There are a few things I've noticed him do differently In bed andni can't help but think "that sob learned that with her" and I think "if this doesn't work for me...he'll compare" etc *sigh*
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It just makes me feel gross. Part of me doesn't even want him to see me naked or be im bed cause I'm just concerned hes comparing. There are a few things I've noticed him do differently In bed andni can't help but think "that sob learned that with her" and I think "if this doesn't work for me...he'll compare" etc *sigh* confused, if he is doing something that grosses you out, ask him to STOP. Just tell him it makes you think of skanky and is ruining your good time.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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They always affair down - sometimes way down. What kind of woman goes after married men, destroys their families?
Trashy Trashy Trashy ones!!! Isn't that true! DD has more class style and sophistication @ age 18 months then both had combined. One is 41 years old and has smokers skin of leather, when I saw that picture I was like 'ouch!' Women who sleep with married man are trash.
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I don't care what her friends think of me Especially the one that wrote to you. I'll lay you donuts to brussel sprouts she's a wayward, too. She's probably about to wet her pants at the thought that her MM's BW might do the same thing to her.
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