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She was caught red handed -"d" day has come & gone many years ago .
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nevermind .........
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Pep, I went back and read his old threads. 0403 has been a member since 2006. He has found his wife in multiple affairs over the years, but has never implemented any of the MB plans. Toolman/0403, you should already know what to do. In case you need a refresher, read this thread. http://forum.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2370240#Post2370240
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Me: BS 51
Himself: WH 53, EA/PA w/ RunnerSlut his "running buddy."
Buncha' kids. The two youngest are still minors.
Separated: 08/13/09 after 25 years of marriage
Plan D: Filed 11/13/09 Final 3/30/11
MC told me that he probably has a personality disorder
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0403, what parts of the Marriage Builders program have the two of you followed to recover from her multiple affairs?
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Thank you for helping out.
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Maybe I should lower my standerds & have an affair? Now that I understand what you are all about. Adios.
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0403, ditto what Pep said, I can't post what I would like cause it would violate TOS but I will give you one thing:
TISP - trust in spell check
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The one constant through all the years has been baseball. America has rolled by like an army of steamrollers. It's been erased like a blackboard, rebuilt, and erased again. But baseball has marked the time. This field, this game, is a part of our past. It reminds us of all that once was good, and it could be again.
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0403,
Since then what have you done, have you given her a lie detector, have you exposed to the spouses of her affair partners, it sounds like all you did was to increase your denial and allowed WW to escape without consequences.
Forget the affair, an affair does not subtract from misery it multiplies it, kinda like two drunks trying to help each other across the road.
God Bless
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I hope you now see the benefit in working MB plans, as opposed to 'Plan Hope' or 'Plan Denial'
Are you ready to get to work on MB plans? (And please, no mention of having a revenge affair, divorce her if you want but to speak of cheating is awful)
Once you've had your 'refresher' you can tell us what MB plans you are going to put in place, i.e. exposure.
What would you do if you were not afraid?
"Fear is the little death. Fear is the mind-killer" Frank Herbert.
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I am going to find a woman that deserves me.
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Get divorced first, because any woman who would hook up with you now is an adulteress.
And you don't want one of those, do you?
Marriage is the triumph of imagination over intelligence. Second marriage is the triumph of hope over experience.
(Oscar Wilde)
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What would you do if you were not afraid?
"Fear is the little death. Fear is the mind-killer" Frank Herbert.
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How about a recap of your story.
Forget the never mind baloney. You need to talk and this is the place where people know how to listen as well as give the best advice.
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0403, what parts of the Marriage Builders program have the two of you followed to recover from her multiple affairs? In case anyone missed it, here is his response to my question: Thank you for helping out.
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How about a recap of your story.
Forget the never mind baloney. You need to talk and this is the place where people know how to listen as well as give the best advice. Cliff's Notes: She had multiple affairs. They did not use Marriage Builders tools. 0403/Toolman used this site as a blog. They did not recover and rebuild their M.
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I am going to find a woman that deserves me. Yes I am sorry I did come across clearly. I will get rid of my current wife first. I called my councel today. I just am not strong enough to do this again
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