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"Don't get him in trouble because he has a wife and kids to worry about." (what about me and our kids?!)
Shocking. Nutso.
Here is mine....WXH said, 'this would have never happened if you had been giving me BJs.'
What??? That's crazy!!
Me: BH 36 Her: WW 34 Kids: D 14, S 12, S 9 DDay 1-6/2009 DDay 2-9/2011 DDay 3-11/2011 Filed for D 10/2011-Papers Served 11/2011 Divorce final May 24, 2012 My Story
Ok, well WW said about her AP, "yes he eis really overwieght, and I am worried about his health"
Yeah he drank daily and smoked coke and snorted it too.
Really he had nothing exept the drugs and loose morals to offer anyways, what a loser
Dreaming today about hurting him still, just would make me feel good to damage him severely, permanently, like the pain the kids feel for losing thier Mom, because of why? Because she was beatiful and could get away with anything with men?
Well all except me, but still hiding and lying and stealing behind my back while I worked myself sick...
Yeah she had issues, issues I begged and hoped she would get real help for, but this idiot added to her issues, and I would like to make hi Pay
Here is mine....WXH said, 'this would have never happened if you had been giving me BJs.'
Oh my word. Wow. Lucky I had already finished my coffee reading that one.
Yep. I swear. This was within a day or two of D-Day. Makes me laugh now but at the time I was devastated....thinking I could have prevented it all.
Thats what I love about this thread. That the crap that comes out of a wayward's mouth hurts and confuses so much at the time, but writing it down here and rereading it and what others have posted, just makes you realise what verbal diarrhea it is. Some need more toilet paper then others, but it is still the same crap.
Me (BW): 35 Married 1999 with no kids, DDay July 2011, OC born September 2012, Divorce final November 2012.
WXH (Gollum) is corrupted by his A, and now forever bound to it.
WH: "If you really loved me, then you will let me go and be supportive of that decision. I think it is time you find a boyfriend."
WH wants me to "live my life" and not have my life so wrapped around him [GAG]. He is truly narcissistic to think that I care where he is at on Friday nights. Oh, he thinks my life is so totally about him all day everyday that I MUST be spying on him (BARF).
He also said its ok if I date (he gave me his blessing lmbo) as long as the guy isn't a "raggedy" person.
See, it's stupid quotes like these where you realize the beauty of Plan B.
Last edited by erika07; 12/18/1112:39 AM.
BS-me 1 child
Matthew 5:44 (CEV) "But I tell you to love your enemies and pray for anyone who mistreats you"
The craziest thing my H said was "you don't trust me!!!"
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt
